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5 Weeks post BU and NC and he's married.


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After 2 1/2 years together with me it only took him 5 weeks to marry someone else. What the f@#%$? :eek:

 

How does that even happen? I.am.speechless.

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Ouch.

 

Just wanted to say I'm sorry to hear that. Yes, this probably means he either had someone on the side or he's rushed into this. Use this crappy info to help yourself realize that anyone who would do that wasn't worth you. Turn it around into a positive-don't think about "he's happy now and I'm not" or any such sort of thinking. Allow yourself to feel the emotions and, in the long run (yes, I hate those words, too, but they are true) you'll be better off...you'll have healed, and he'll still be in a messed up place.

 

Good luck!

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im sorry to know abt that. you must be thankful for 2 things. 1st give up hope cuz he is worthless and 2nd the fact that hes getting married says something really wrong with him. i'd never marry someone i knew for 5 weeks and after having a break up. i agree with the former post that he had her on the side during the time you both were together. or else he's out of his mind to marry her. hes doing this to make you jealous and to hurt you. or to get over you. i am a man and i know what im talking about. didn't read your previous threads and i don't know your story. but his marriage wont last long and he will suffer.

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Yea the chances of that marriage working out are about the same as me having a baby (I'm a guy). If you haven't already, cut off all contact and hang out with friends/family as much as possible

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