EuTuBrute Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Hey guys... First I would like to thank all of you on the forum for the support you give it really helps! I just saw a quote somewhere that, "You never really stop loving someone, you just learn to try to live without them." I am trying very hard to move on after my first relationship of 2.5 years... I loved the girl to death. I am just starting to become interested in other girls, but in the back of my mind its hard to get the thought of my ex out of my head. It is silly because at the end of the relationship she started treating me badly and had no regret whatsoever to ending it. How did you guys get over the big hurdle of the first? My head knows she is a mean and selfish person, but my heart just wont let go. 1
OpheliaSong Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Love is an action as well as a feeling so yes, you do stop loving them because they do not give you a reason to love them anymore after they become nonentities in your life and you move on. 1
AShogunNamedMarcus Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Hey guys... First I would like to thank all of you on the forum for the support you give it really helps! I just saw a quote somewhere that, "You never really stop loving someone, you just learn to try to live without them." I am trying very hard to move on after my first relationship of 2.5 years... I loved the girl to death. I am just starting to become interested in other girls, but in the back of my mind its hard to get the thought of my ex out of my head. It is silly because at the end of the relationship she started treating me badly and had no regret whatsoever to ending it. How did you guys get over the big hurdle of the first? My head knows she is a mean and selfish person, but my heart just wont let go. At least yours was mean and selfish. You have something to work with and be angry about. Mine was the nicest person I've ever met. So, yay.
Hotsauce3mk Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 At least yours was mean and selfish. You have something to work with and be angry about. Mine was the nicest person I've ever met. So, yay. So was mine. The first girl I truly loved for 2.5 years was the nicest girl ever and she broke up with me outta the blue. It has been hell, but I try and focus on how young and immature she is, always needs validation from people, and the fact that she probably strung me along for who knows how long before "suddenly" ending it. 1
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Does the love for the first ever die? OMG, yes it does!!! I remember feeling so heartbroken years ago after my first love dumped me. That was almost 8 years ago?! I don't even know how long ago it was, but jeez, I can't believe I ever cried over him!! EW. But we only dated for 8 months (I knew him for YEARS though)...Then my next "love" I met we dated for a year and he really broke my heart. I was so depressed, it took me a year to get over him. We lived together and everything. That was...4 years ago. I still think about him, but love him? Hell no. I'm SOO over him I could NOT care less if I ever saw him again. And now I'm trying to get over another guy I love...but I know I will!! It just doesn't feel like it right now. You will meet so many other people and have your heart broken probably a dozen more times till you meet "the one". Actually I read somewhere, in some article, in some random magazine, that typically people get their hearts broken 7 times before they meet the one. 2
Author EuTuBrute Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 I just don't get it, we offered them everything and out of the blue they just dump us like we didn't even matter. I would love to know what the hell goes through their head when they do this... it's prob grass is greener syndrome
2fargone Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Yes, love dies. Sometimes I thought about contacting her, but not because of what we had, but because I would be curious as to 'where we are now' or something. Nothing 'fond' I'm thinking of, that's for sure. It took me some years though. And wanting to get in touch only occured when I was single.
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