btvdts Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 it's going on two months since bu with nc as well. Bc the bu was so sudden and me leaving out of state a week later, I had to rush and pack and leave. the ex has two little girls whom I miss terribly and of course really didn't have a chance to say good bye(she gave me 15 minutes). I was involved with the girls right away due to the fact that we knew each prior to the relationship and the girls like me. today I was getting socks and found a pair that belongs to the youngest. The most meaningless object just made me cry .its hard to face the fact that I won't see those girls grow up. I was going to ask the ex to marry me this month so you can understand how I felt about the three of them. 1
AnyaNova Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 it's going on two months since bu with nc as well. Bc the bu was so sudden and me leaving out of state a week later, I had to rush and pack and leave. the ex has two little girls whom I miss terribly and of course really didn't have a chance to say good bye(she gave me 15 minutes). I was involved with the girls right away due to the fact that we knew each prior to the relationship and the girls like me. today I was getting socks and found a pair that belongs to the youngest. The most meaningless object just made me cry .its hard to face the fact that I won't see those girls grow up. I was going to ask the ex to marry me this month so you can understand how I felt about the three of them. I can't remember the exact term, I think they call it, "object of emotional release." But some stupid object, and its relates somehow to some situation or person, and it brings back all of the emotions associated. I think we tend to notice it more when it brings back sadness or anger, than we do when it brings back joy (because we like joy a whole lot more). I'm sorry. It sounds tough. Hang out here. Recover, so eventually you can find the person who will appreciate you and who will want to marry you as well. I know, I remember how I felt when I first came here, like he was the only one I could ever think about loving. But since then I have recovered and actually have developed a couple of crushes since (although this last one I have to quash ASAP so things don't get awkward!). :-) I know it sounds impossible now, but it will get better. And know that you are not alone. There are many, many people here experiencing the same pain that you are. 1
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