ferry989 Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 I 've been in love with a guy for 2 years, actually he was my ex but he didn't know that. I was talking to him being another girl 'cause I never wanted to lose him, I know its my mistake. It was obviusly Long distance, so no.problem in meeting too. Now after several months I told him all the truth about me that I was your ex, talking to you being another girl etc etc. he didn't say a word. I kinda pleaded him sayin I love you alot and all but he didn't care made fun of me. Now after 7 months he wants to meet me, I dnt know why , what should I do? please please help me. And even in these 7 months he had 2 affairs which was unbearable by me. Please please help me wat should I do?
headinthecloud Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Stop playing games with people. Have courage to be yourself and work on your self esteem.
Zahara Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Your story is all over the place. Your threads in Oct/Now claim that you were in contact with him and that he wanted to meet. Now you say you pretended to be someone else and that was 7 months ago. I'm lost. And you do say that your ex only returned because he was rejected by another woman. Listen to your gut. And, try to stop manipulating and lying. You said he broke up with you because you lied about something. Then you pretend to be someone else to manipulate the situation. How can you possibly have a relationship when you handle yourself this way. Grow up.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 I 've been in love with a guy for 2 years, actually he was my ex but he didn't know that. I was talking to him being another girl 'cause I never wanted to lose him, I know its my mistake. It was obviusly Long distance, so no.problem in meeting too. Now after several months I told him all the truth about me that I was your ex, talking to you being another girl etc etc. he didn't say a word. I kinda pleaded him sayin I love you alot and all but he didn't care made fun of me. Now after 7 months he wants to meet me, I dnt know why , what should I do? please please help me. And even in these 7 months he had 2 affairs which was unbearable by me. Please please help me wat should I do? I'm incredibly lost.....
Still Searching Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 I think she's saying she had a relationship end, and "cat-fished" the ex. Started a long distance, online relationship, pretending to be some other girl, simply because she didn't want to lose her ex. Later admitted to everything, he was speechless, and now finally wants to meet. Maybe I'm wrong, but if I'm not...wow. The things people will do.
NoLeafClover Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 (edited) very simple....stop playing games with him lady and let him go. No one wants to be with someone who is playing trick or treat behind the screen. Can you explain how being another woman and being in a long distance relationship virtually with your so called ex, shows that you didn't want to lose him?? He clearly wanted to be with this other woman (which you made him think existed) ...which part here shows that he actually wanted to be with you? Why not let people be with who they want to be? Why play games and then tell him pretty much that you were lying to him? What do you expect he is going to say? Some of us here are just as speechless ...and we're not even your ex. I don't blame the guy. I'd urge you to let him be immediately and move on. Edited December 13, 2013 by NoLeafClover
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