Silly Girl924 Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Haven't written here in a while because things are going well but I have a question and would like some insight. First off, my ex and I broke up like 8 months ago he had a new girlfriend about 4 days after. They're still together and I've had a new boyfriend since 3 months after my ex and I broke up. I haven't seen or talked to my ex since he broke up with me via text. We dated for 3 years. A little while after we had broken, I become really good friends with his brothers ex girlfriend. Recently, his brother started dating his ex again so I've been inevitably been seeing and hanging out with his brother, too. He felt bad about the way his brother had treated me near the end of our relationship. My ex and his girlfriend had recently moved in with his brother too. My good friend and my brothers ex said he absolutely does not and cannot see me. They said he would freak out and be absolutely horrible to me. They all live in an apartment that I used to have a lot of fun in too, but my ex and me cannot be in the same room. We were at a bar one time right next to their apartment and they said he said "should I show up hammered and make it super awkward." Why so bitter?!? I didn't do anything, I was mean to him through text because I was mad he didn't even have the decentcy to gracefully break up with me face to face
stillafool Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Question: When you are hanging out with your Ex's brother and his girlfriend do you bring your new boyfriend with you?
Author Silly Girl924 Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 No. I have offered for him to come everytime but he has a crazy work schedule. We all want to go on a double date sometime because my new boyfriend and my ex's brother were good friends in high-school
carhill Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 While probably difficult to do when young, IMO it's healthy to discount hearsay and witness authentic words and actions. Only your ex knows what's in his mind. For us to guess 'why' would be fantastic conjecture. Reading this, there's probably a lot more to the story than meets the reader's eye, and that's normal. Since you and he have both apparently moved on, my advice would be to focus in on those new relationships (good for you!) and let the past slip into the abyss. Lots of life ahead and many more abysses to encounter. Good luck. 1
Author Silly Girl924 Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 Wow lol that was a great response, thank you!
Author Silly Girl924 Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 I would like other perspectives though, please
Author Silly Girl924 Posted December 14, 2013 Author Posted December 14, 2013 La la answer pleaseeee. Maybe I'm subconsciously hoping it means he's not over me? Idk I've been nostalgic about him but I think it's because it's gettin to be Xmas and I recently heard he had a hero** overdose. He dumped me over drugs, another girl, and friends
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