Softie Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 It's even over 2 months. I've been going through a lot of emotion recently that I think I initially blocked out. But I still cannot believe that someone who experienced more happiness than ever before with me (he and his BF confirmed) such fun times would leave. Someone that even after BU said he never expected to meet someone as wonderful as me, said I was amazing. He has issues but why throw away love. I even asked him did he wish to try again about a month ago, he said yes and no, he really missed me, thinks about me everyday but he is still a stubborn git. Sigh, it's just such a shame that something so lovely has gone now. Too much hurt has happened now to turn back I think. Hate the thought of starting again.
acidios Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 be strong I know how you feel right now heck what im saying WE ALL HERE know how you feel. emotions will come and go but don't be hard on yourself keep your focus.disbelief is a step that you need to face and its a step that talking helps talk with friends family and here ofc. about "Hate the thought of starting again" im on that boat right now.im talking will girls and none cant give me the same feeling of communication that I had with my ex I even feel tired after a 10 min talking but this show that im not ready to move and need more time.
TrappedWanderer Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Yeah, I think all of us here understand that. I feel the same way. I was happy with what we had...or, at least, what I thought we had. And that's the key. I know in my head what I'm missing is that idea, that other person....but that wasn't a reality. Not with everything he's shown me that he really is now. But it's still really hard when you were committed and the other person let you down. Hard to know what's true and what's not. Hang in there. I have good moments and bad. I'm still in disbelief myself. I know I'll have to start over, but man...that just seems so exhausting right now. Take it moment by moment and let yourself feel things. Putting them off will only drag this process out even longer. 1
JoelBarish Posted December 15, 2013 Posted December 15, 2013 The thing is that although you and your ex apparently have high regard for your relationship that isn't enough for him to want to reconcile although if you were in the same position you would probably want to get back together. I think it's important to accept that some things are beyond your control even if it makes no sense from your perspective. 1
Author Softie Posted December 15, 2013 Author Posted December 15, 2013 The thing is that although you and your ex apparently have high regard for your relationship that isn't enough for him to want to reconcile although if you were in the same position you would probably want to get back together. I think it's important to accept that some things are beyond your control even if it makes no sense from your perspective. Yes I think that made it harder cause it didn't make sense at all. I'm slowly moving past it. He has issues, I cannot do anything about those only can work on myself which I am doing. His loss, truly.
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