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Tonight my buddy got into an argument with his long term gf and we hung out. I was just there to hang out for him and just be there for him. I've only been recently broken up for about 6 months and she's with a new person, emotionally cheated on me. I couldn't help but get a rush of feelings when my buddy called his gf and she cried worrying about where he was. It made me wish someone was there to cry for me and miss me. I just feel alone, it makes me pretty sad and hearing that made me sad.. wishing I had someone to come home to. I just wanted to express this somewhere and it's been a roller coaster ride. I really miss having someone who cares so much for me.

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l know how you feel. It hurts like hell, and situations like this creeps up on us and brings all the emotions to the surface.

 

 

LS is a great place to vent and share. I'm on here alot because it helps to know lm not alone.

 

I wish you the best and hope that tomorrow will be better for you.

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We will get there x Its made even harder knowing they have someone new :-( x

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Yeah it is nice to have someone who cares but I think we all have to accept that there will be periods when we will have to walk alone.

 

Become a wolfpack of one and be the man. Strong. Independent. Ready for action.

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Hang in there and remember, everything happens for a reason. :)

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yes it hurts and it will be hardest when xmas arrive but we must be strong keep our mind in a balance and try the best we can do to make 2014 the best year in our lives that's the only goal now.

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Hang in there and remember, everything happens for a reason. :)

 

I believe that also, i've been having my fun. It's all fun but I find myself enjoying a deeper relationship more than just some random fun with a girl.

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Something like this happened to me and it made me think of my relationship and how much my ex and I were madly in love with each other in the past. It's really sad to be reminded of how he doesn't love me the way he used to, now he must love me as a friend... It hurts, but I try to see things from a positive perspective. I'm happy I was able to love someone as much as I did, and I know I will be madly in love again someday.

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Tonight my buddy got into an argument with his long term gf and we hung out. I was just there to hang out for him and just be there for him. I've only been recently broken up for about 6 months and she's with a new person, emotionally cheated on me. I couldn't help but get a rush of feelings when my buddy called his gf and she cried worrying about where he was. It made me wish someone was there to cry for me and miss me. I just feel alone, it makes me pretty sad and hearing that made me sad.. wishing I had someone to come home to. I just wanted to express this somewhere and it's been a roller coaster ride. I really miss having someone who cares so much for me.

 

Me too!

 

I wish I had some magic words to help you feel better on this one, but I don't.

 

Just know that I think there are a lot of us that do miss this. And it is especially hard for me, being I don't want to say, displaced for grad school, because I do love where I am at, but I am far from my family and far from the lifelong friends I made in college.

 

And it would be nice to have somewhere here, who really cared in the way that an SO does, about my existence and what happens to me. And who I could care about similarly.

 

Don't get me wrong, I have friends here, but its not quite the same thing.

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Me too!

 

I wish I had some magic words to help you feel better on this one, but I don't.

 

Just know that I think there are a lot of us that do miss this. And it is especially hard for me, being I don't want to say, displaced for grad school, because I do love where I am at, but I am far from my family and far from the lifelong friends I made in college.

 

And it would be nice to have somewhere here, who really cared in the way that an SO does, about my existence and what happens to me. And who I could care about similarly.

 

Don't get me wrong, I have friends here, but its not quite the same thing.

 

As much as many people think being single is being free, I don't really think of that much. Sure you don't have anyone to report to and you can do whatever you want without thinking twice but it's a good feeling you know you're going home to someone every night or knowing someone cares for you so much that they're worried about you. It's fun and interesting to not know who the next person to step into my life is but at the same time I'm gonna have to build that relationship up again. It's been a lot of work and to see it crumbling down sucks. We were together for almost 7 years btw but a part of me always had on the back of my mind that it wasn't going to last because we were young and I don't have much faith in young couples lasting too long like that.

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I think we all have to accept that there will be periods when we will have to walk alone.

 

There is so much truth to this statement. And it's the periods when you walk alone that will define you and make you stronger. When you can walk alone and thrive, you know you're strong and capable of anything.

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