fifipheebs Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Perhaps these are just my unrealistic expectations but if afriend is interested in being more than just, would he contact you while on holidays? Would you keep in touch with someone you were interested in while away on holiday?
MalachiX Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Reaching out over the holidays is what I've done when I've wanted a friendship to maybe be something more. 2
regine_phalange Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Reaching out over the holidays is what I've done when I've wanted a friendship to maybe be something more. I second that! Holidays, birthdays... Great opportunities! 1
Author fifipheebs Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 Reaching out over the holidays is what I've done when I've wanted a friendship to maybe be something more. Then the fact that he hasn't emailed me once indicates he's not interested?
emva07 Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Then the fact that he hasn't emailed me once indicates he's not interested? not necessarily. I think most people would contact but not all. Some people are just socially awkward. Also depends on HOW interested he is.
Author fifipheebs Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 some do some dont. if you where getting closer before he left i would aspect at least a mail He emailed almost everyday up to his trip. Since been on his holiday he has not contacted me once.
emva07 Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 well all I can say is that someone doesn't email you throughout all of their holiday, he can't be that interested.
soccerrprp Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Yeah, if I were interested, I would certainly text or call periodically at least during the holiday. It would drop a little b/c likely spending more time with family, but, communication would definitely continue.
KathyM Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 It may be possible that he doesn't have internet access while he's away, or he wants to save on cell phone battery while away if he didn't bring the cell phone charger with him. I wouldn't read anything into it at this point.
Author fifipheebs Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 It may be possible that he doesn't have internet access while he's away, or he wants to save on cell phone battery while away if he didn't bring the cell phone charger with him. I wouldn't read anything into it at this point. I think this is possible. His holiday is actually more like doctors without borders. He's in a remote area where I suspect the only wifi could be at the airport.
d0nnivain Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 I think you are using holiday to mean vacation. There could be a lot of reasons why contact has stopped including limited internet access. Before you completely give up, see what happens when he returns home.
Author fifipheebs Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 I think you are using holiday to mean vacation. There could be a lot of reasons why contact has stopped including limited internet access. Before you completely give up, see what happens when he returns home. Yes please forgive me. Holidays means vacation.
incelveteran Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 His holiday is actually more like doctors without borders. He's in a remote area where I suspect the only wifi could be at the airport. I was an affiliate with DwB and I can assure you this is true.
d0nnivain Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 fifipheebs I didn't see the DWB stuff; bad me for skimming. That is absolutely the reason. Again, see what happens when he comes home.
Author fifipheebs Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 The guy returns this week but he's pasted pix up on FB. Should be seeing him when he returns but it'll be at a party. Should I wait it out of he comes over to me to talk or do you think he's not interested if he still didn't contact me even tho he clearly ended up getting internet connection somewhere.
Author fifipheebs Posted December 18, 2013 Author Posted December 18, 2013 The guy returns this week but he's pasted pix up on FB. Should be seeing him when he returns but it'll be at a party. Should I wait it out of he comes over to me to talk or do you think he's not interested if he still didn't contact me even tho he clearly ended up getting internet connection somewhere. He called me today. We chatted for a bit but he said some things that make me think perhaps he's just playing me. He talked about these girls he met who physically are the opposite of me. Saying how hot they were. Is he trying to make me jealous or keep me at arms length.
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 Yes - I would say they would use any excuse to talk to you. 1
Author fifipheebs Posted December 19, 2013 Author Posted December 19, 2013 Yes - I would say they would use any excuse to talk to you. Thanx. He seems to be sending mixed messages. Fabulous he called. I'm over the moon- but Why bring up fact the girls were opposite of what I am. Why say there were legs for days; Amazonian women with luscious dark hair. I don't want to hear those details and feel even more insecure.
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