Juha Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Ex dumped me first week of October in a phone call and in a very crappy way. Not going to get into it, think I posted it here did not look for it. Since the bu I have been total nc, never contacting her. A month after bu she called late one night after drinking to tell me that were never getting back together and she does not want a relationship with me. Then tells me she misses me and that the guys she is meeting are not as good as me and that she wants me there right now. lol She has texted me a handful of other times seeing how I was after being in the hospital and a happy thanksgiving. Anyway, she texted me the other day telling me how angry she is at me and how she is so mad at seeing me, my family, and that blonde beech on my facebook page. The blonde is a good friend who lives away, she is just a friend. not sure my ex knows that lol. That she does not know what to do and has no one to talk to. She is mad and it's getting worse. She did not want to be that beech who unfriends me on fb. She feels bad yelling at me, does not want to hate me, and does not want to lose me. Just wants us to be friends.. Tells me to make it better. lol I assume her friends think she has nothing to do with me and is not even in touch with me. Why she has no one to talk to about this. What is up with this girl? She breaks up with me, I have not bothered her at all, total nc. SHe has been in touch with me a handful of times. SHe is mad at me about seeing my fb page on her news feed. Why not just block what she sees form me? Why cause all this drama? Next day she starts again. Wants to meet so she can talk and we can feel better. I'm ok, obviously she is not. tells me that she has tried many, many times to meet for coffee or something and I am obnoxious and cancel on her. This is totally untrue, she has never asked to get together in reality I have asked her to get together and she has turned me down and been angry at me. Told me there is no reason for us to ever spend time together ever again and now she is turning the truth around... What is with this girl? Any help or opinions would be great. I have never seen anything like this..
ks0985 Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 lol you owe her NOTHING. Her problem dude....my ex was also mad at me and upset when i started dating girls days after she broke up with me. They decided to end things not us right.....Im not upset at all and neither should you
Author Juha Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 Anyone have opinions or been through this?
EuTuBrute Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 My ex of 2.5 years dumped me...and after 4 months NC got mad at me for liking someones post on facebook. Here is my thought on this... The opposite of love is indifference. Them being upset or mad at you still shows they still care. They might want not to be with you on their outward projections, but deep down they will always have feelings for you.
ponchsox Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 My ex gf dumped me over the phone and was mad because I said mean things to her. I should have stayed NC but boo freaking hoo. I think I was trying to piss her off and get emotion out of her.
Recommended Posts