brokeNlost Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Today I got weak and looked at my ex-gf picture on facebook and saw a pic of her kissing her new bf. It broke me inside...why do I keep torturing myself over her? It's been over a month since the breakup and I still can't get her off my mind. She is the last thing I think about before I go to bed and the first thing I think about when I wake up. Hell I even dream about her. WTF should I do to erase her out of my heart and mind?? help plz
organizedchaos Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Today I got weak and looked at my ex-gf picture on facebook and saw a pic of her kissing her new bf. It broke me inside...why do I keep torturing myself over her? It's been over a month since the breakup and I still can't get her off my mind. She is the last thing I think about before I go to bed and the first thing I think about when I wake up. Hell I even dream about her. WTF should I do to erase her out of my heart and mind?? help plz You can start by blocking her on FB to prevent you from looking. Make sure she's blocked everywhere else too. 2
Author brokeNlost Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 I thought about blocking her on facebook but I don't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing that I'm not over her.
ponchsox Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 I thought about blocking her on facebook but I don't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing that I'm not over her. By snooping, she will know you aren't over her and most importantly you prevent yourself from moving on.
ks0985 Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Will power my friend, just gotta be more mentally tough
LostConfused123 Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Oh please don't ever do that to yourself again. I know, it's absolutely awful isn't it!! The agony and excruciating pain you are feeling, I felt once too. Please block and don't ever ever look again!! Best of luck in your recovery!! ((hugs))
Author brokeNlost Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 Stop caring about what she thinks. She's an ex. Who cares? Block her. It wouldn't be so bad if I didn't dated her for 4.5 years and even planned on marrying her.
haggard969 Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 well to be honest women like to be in the spot light, they like to be the top of gossip, and if even its bad such as them being whores and start dating a new guy, people knotice, for instance, "omg did you see sally, whos that new guy shes with," suddenly those girls are hotter because people knoticed the change, hense probly what your ex is doing n she wants to be one step ahead of you, find the hottest girl you can , n go all the way, i think the dumpers need to get crushed for once
LostConfused123 Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 It wouldn't be so bad if I didn't dated her for 4.5 years and even planned on marrying her. All the more reason to block. I'm sorry, I know how bad you're hurting but this is why you should block. This way you won't ever have to be subjected to this kind of torture. Don't put things in your path that will continually rip the wound open. I know it seems drastic and harsh but do it for your own sanity and recovery. We are all here for you
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