topgunphantom Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Hi guys I'm new here so here's my story. I'm a hopeless girl waiting a second chance she may not get. Three years ago, I met the love of my life by accident. My sister works as a nurse and made me come pick her up one day when I noticed him in the waiting room. He didn't seem like the type I would date since I hated him at first but his humor and kindness slowly won me over. We were friends for two years then the day before my birthday in the fall, I noticed that him and his latest fling called it quits so I took a chance and confessed my feelings. He confessed that he dug me too and for a two weeks we were a couple but that soon crumbled once I saw emails from my sister who was trashing me in hopes of dating him for herself.(They dated for less than a week) That led him to block me on all the social networks we shared which was a crushing blow for me. A week later, I sent him an email via his band's page in hopes he would forgive me but by then he was already seeing a backup dancer. That relationship lasted 3 months so once word got around that he was newly single in the summer, I tried to make amends in sending an email congratulating him on his latest promotion. A simple"Thank you"was sent with confused hopes of reconnecting. (He never responded again) Now comes word he is engaged to someone who dates multiple partners and is just using him as her latest boytoy. They have a public relationship which has made me stay away from social networks since it hurts seeing them so madly in love.(Do those even last and if so, how long?) There's always been this feeling inside me that we should be together since I would love to get a second chance but is it too late? Thanks!
BlametheIrish Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 The love of your life will be someone who loves you as much as you love them. Not some random guy you dated for a very short stint. He's engaged so you really need to.let this go and don't waste anymore time hurting and hoping he will come back. I know it's hard but the sooner ypu get over him, the sooner you'll be to finding the real love of your life 1
StyleOnEm Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Doesn't sound like he's a long-term relationship type. He's more into jumping around from one girl to the next, and I doubt he remains faithful to the ones he does become exclusive with. 2
headinthecloud Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 I'm sorry but it sounds like unrequited love. He does not, not will ever, love you. He's attracted to people who are toxic, and likely so is he. Please move on. For your own happiness. He does not want you in his life, and too much has happened. Let him go.
thompkevin Posted December 14, 2013 Posted December 14, 2013 I think you have just obsessed over him for so long that you have convinced yourself that he is your soulmate, love of your life, prince charming and every other romantic fantasy that people have. The truth is, you don't know anything about him for him to be the love of your life. He dated you for two weeks and that's not enough to know him. Besides, he left you for your sister. WTF? Also, why did you apologize to him? He left you for your sister. He should be the one apologizing.
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