loveRight Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Finding out bf went to club and bought a girl a drink and exchanged #'s, read text messages..did not see each other other than at the club...she doesnt live anywhere near by. (she was flying back home that morning, im guessing he would of cheated on me if she was leaving later on? of course) This happened in the beginning of the relationship, we couldn't see each other often..but still thats no excuse. Ive been loyal from the very beginning. The club situation happened around the 3 month mark "together" and shortly after that he told me how he wanted to take things to another level and become "more serious". so anyways since then its been about 4 months and i recently found out about the club situation..but he doesnt know that i know. ive given him many opportunities to come clean about it but he wont. He's been good to me, the last 4 months but im extremely hurt and bothered by it. What would u do if u were in a simliar situations?
HeartBorken Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Seeds of mistrust have been planted...... Be upfront about the situation. Don't play any games let him know how you feel. See if is being honest with you......... Once that lost of trust is gone the relationship is set to fail. AGAIN BE UPFRONT AND CLEAR
OrangeSnack Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 How'd you find out? Why are you reading his text messages? Are you that insecure? You kind of broke the trust clause and now he has every right to be upset with you. The damage is already done so like the original poster have said, it's time to be upfront of the situation. Prepare for the worst. Good luck and be safe.
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