rweb7 Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 I have been seeing this girl (18 years old and a uni. student in January) We have been seeing each other for 2 1/2 months now. We get along together great. She's beautiful, smart, nice, kind. We talked almost all the time (mostly text). Recently she has been busy with school and her upcoming vacation next week (hawaii -2 weeks) But i have been persistent on getting her to hang out with me. I admit, i have been constantly bringing it up since monday. Yesterday i texted her a couple times and left a voicemail, it had been 24 hours at that point before i noticed she was online on facebook. So i messaged her asking if everything was okay? I also admitted i was bugging her a lot about seeing me even though she said she was busy. She said "Yup you were." I replied with, and i quote: "Sorry.. I'll respect that you're busy. I hope we can brush it aside, and talk like we used to? I do like you, and I hope you don't go. I'll give you some space, sorry again." Like we really connect and talk a lot. I admit i was being needy/selfish. As long as I stop, i think she'll text me back in a day or two? What do you guys think? Thanks.
Lansing Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 Hate to say it but I think you have already "flipped the switch" and made her think you are needy/etc. Your only chance it probably to back off completely and not contact her until after her trip. That way she can see you as someone who has other stuff going on and aren't desperate to hang out with her. You didn't help things by apologizing, telling her you like her, etc (she KNOWS you like her).
OrangeSnack Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Hey bro. That's very courageous of you to say that you like her. But if you want to more adventurous, try saying that to someone (not necessarily her) in person. I know texting is pretty much a norm nowadays but women in general like to hear it instead. We were given ears for a reason. Anyhow, don't contact her again. You pretty much passed the ball onto her and now she has to decide whether or not to throw the ball back at you. If she doesn't then you know your answer. You're still young. 18. Go out, have fun and enjoy yourself! Experiment, experiment, experiment!
Author rweb7 Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 Ts hard tpHey bro. That's very courageous of you to say that you like her. But if you want to more adventurous, try saying that to someone (not necessarily her) in person. I know texting is pretty much a norm nowadays but women in general like to hear it instead. We were given ears for a reason. Anyhow, don't contact her again. You pretty much passed the ball onto her and now she has to decide whether or not to throw the ball back at you. If she doesn't then you know your answer. You're still young. 18. Go out, have fun and enjoy yourself! Experiment, experiment, experiment! I guess I should of been more clear. We have been on several public dates, its just lately we've been texting a lot with her busy. I'd hate to throw in the towel now.. its bot like I called her bad things or got mad at here, right? I'm sure she'll contact me soon? So me sending her a nice text on Saturday is out of the question? Haha
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