IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 2 months ago i was miserable. I thought that this was rock bottom. I met a new guy and I'm already head over heals (not in love). Do you think that I don't really like this guy and i think i do b/c I'm trying to get over the ex? I mean i have told the ex MANY MANY MANY time that i don't want to go back with him b/c my new guy really knows how to treat a woman. Is it a rebound? I hope not b/c i believe that i really do like this guy.
dp Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 If you really do like this guy then just go with that. Stop talking to your ex so that you may move forward in your new relationship. If you don't want to stop talking to your ex then maybe you are not ready to move forward with somebody new. As for the new guy, be honest with him and talk to him about your feelings. don't let him think that you are really into him if you don't know if you are. Only you can determine how you feel. On one hand you say that you don't know if what you are feeling is for real and on the other hand you say that you really like this guy. Just keep it light, keep it honest and stop living in the past. If you and your ex are really done then let it be done. You need time to close that chapter of your life and if you are constantly rereading it you will never really reach the end. maybe that is your answer, if you can't close the door on your ex then you have no business being in a new relationship unless you are truly honest with the new guy and yourself.
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