vanellope Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 I have been with a married man for one and half year, and last month we just talk all things out, he told me he cannot divorce and cannot marry me, but would like to keep me as a friend by his side. I am sad and depressed, but I keep amicable friendship with him, we talk daily thing everyday, but no sweet words and no above friend talking, because I think this will help me move on faster. however I just got a mail from him, it's a hash mail, I feel sad to get this mail, but then I do feel this mail is not written by him, because make no sense, I do write back and ask why you send this to me, but cannot get reach to him now. this mail make me feel so sad now, personally I don't believe it's from his hand, but if it's from his wife then I can't imagine what she going to do if she saw our mails before. what should I do now, ignore this?
Cinnimon Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 What is hash mail? Was it saying that he is done ?
Snipercatt Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 Regardless who the email is from, there isn't any good that will come to you by responding to anything, from either of them, going forward.
Author vanellope Posted December 12, 2013 Author Posted December 12, 2013 He just told me his wife read all our mails from the first days till now, just like what I think because the content of the mail is not like what he would write.
goodyblue Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 Don't respond. There is nothing you can say or do that will make things better regardless of whom it is from. Just wait for him to contact you in person or by phone where you can hear his voice. Wait for an explanation.
Author vanellope Posted December 12, 2013 Author Posted December 12, 2013 his wife wrote me that she will not keep silent for this. and I don't know what she will do now.
beach Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 Don't respond. There is nothing you can say or do that will make things better regardless of whom it is from. Just wait for him to contact you in person or by phone where you can hear his voice. Wait for an explanation. Or don't wait at all... Just move forward and date available men.
Author vanellope Posted December 12, 2013 Author Posted December 12, 2013 half year ago when he told her he is in love with me, she did write to my parent about this affair, she knows my family. and she did treat me she will write to my company public mailbox. the mail is from old day, but I know it's will let her feel angry when see it, they are love letters.
Author vanellope Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 she is threaten me now. she sand me a video mail, the video was took by her husband when last year we spend intimate time when vacation, he record it with his phone and now she just show me she got this video. now the worse case is she send it to my family and colleagues.
Cinnimon Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 she is threaten me now. she sand me a video mail, the video was took by her husband when last year we spend intimate time when vacation, he record it with his phone and now she just show me she got this video. now the worse case is she send it to my family and colleagues. She IS threatening to send it you your family and colleagues? Or she has already done so?
Author vanellope Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 I don't know she sent it or not, my family no one is checking their mailbox now yet, and I don't know if any of my colleagues get the mails already or not. i will know it soon. i just know if she send it, it's will be very bad becasue it's a very private video.
Cinnimon Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 I'm sorry this is happening. I guess there is not anything you can do now to stop this. If I were you I would prepare for the worst and hope for the best. I wish I had something better to say to you...... If she were to send the video, what do you think the outcome would be?
whatatangledweb Posted December 13, 2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Did she write anything when she send the video? If not then she was letting you know she had it. I would say it was a warning to stay away from her husband.
Author vanellope Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 she write to me, she will not keep silent anymore, and she thought i can good girl but obvious i am not, and so on. if she send that, then people know me will see my nake body, her husband only hand and voice in video.
Author vanellope Posted December 13, 2013 Author Posted December 13, 2013 i don't know what to do, i did tell him to delete the video when he show me before, but he said he will protect it well and want to keep it, i say ok. but now i know he cannot protect me, and for man this video maybe nothing, but for woman it's really bad, i cant imagine if my parent get this.
Author vanellope Posted December 14, 2013 Author Posted December 14, 2013 thank you, I am fine. now I start thinking it's he on purpose to let his wife see his mailbox, why I think this is because when I review our mails, I found out recently his talking on mail become like good husband, and I guess he delete our mails before which he talk sweet, even the video only I am half naked on it. I think he want to show his wife that it's all my fault, it's me love him only. I feel sad and angry, because the mails I write him is very private thought of mine which I was just want to share with th person I trust, he expose it to his wife. It's really hurting, I think he use me to show his wife his loyalty, and also he give his wife the video now, he expose me in bad situation, now I only can hope his wife is stable and won't send the video to my friends or post on web and so on. Nobody can protect me now, really pathetic.
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