joeyNoelle Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 How soon is too soon to say I love you The other night well it was NYE i got angry at my boyfriend of three months but we got over it within an hour or less anyway that night i apologized for being over dramatic and angry and said i was sooo sorry and said 'do you hate me?' which was stupid to say because i know he didn't but i was alittle drunk etc. He just kissed me and said very very quietly i love you. I said nothing and then gave him a kiss and we went to sleep. I know what i heard but my point is why doesn't he say it normally why does it have to be under his breath so I can barely hear it? and do you think its too early to say i love you? i do feel like I'm falling in love with him, he is comfortable saying that i mean a lot to him, that he cares about me, tells me I'm beautiful, and how lucky he feels to be with me but he said that under his breath and i swear i have heard it before under his breath. Why do guys do this.
dyermaker Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Who cares? Forgive me for thinking your angst is silly, but I think you should be happy you have someone who loves you, and not worry so much about what comes out of his mouth, or the volume thereof.
GirlDown Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 what about you, did you say it too? cause if not, that might make him reluctant to say it again.
dp Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 I was going to ask if you have said it to him but, somebody else already did. So, did you ever say it back to him? If you don't give him an I love you right back then he may just be more comfortable to say it softly and hope for a reply and if you don't give him a reply then he probably hopes that he said it soft enough that you didn't hear him. That's probably his way of protecting himself. If he says it loud then there is no doubt that you heard him and therefore if you don't say it back then he'll feel something is wrong but, if he whisperes it and you don't say it back then he can hold onto some hope that you just didn't hear him. If you respond to him and he still says it softly then either be glad that he says it at all or ask him why he doesn't say it loud like you would like for him to.
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