Feel cold as ice though agreeing to a second round.

[missannoyed]

that's rough... I do feel your pain. You should Play his game for awhile, start to give him less and less attention, get a boyfriend on the side (or pretend too) and let him know about it, then eventually cut him off and give him breadcrumbs every now and then. I would have liked to try this with mine, but emotions got in the way... All the best though with whatever choice you decide to make

[Britain]

I just read your story. What a delusional self serving prick your MM is. I would extinguish his playing with fire. Next time he plays his funny games, be direct and brutally stern with your words. Be stone cold. Sometimes this rattles them a bit, wakes them up.

[Britain]

If he attempts to go the route, to play the lunchtime game again with you:

 

"Listen here you delusional mindless twit, you like playing funny games with me, well it is inevitable every time you come around I smell sh't and it isn't pleasant. You can continue along now with your little game because for now, you are I-n-v-i-s-i-b-l-e to me. Got that invisible, (use your finger to showcase your eyes as if he is too stupid to understand the meaning or prolong the syllables to get your point across). And unless you are completely reborn a different individual or do a complete 180, you will remain i-n-v-i-s-i-b-l-e to me. Do I need to be more direct with you, do I need to spell it out for you? Are you dumb? You must be to think I would put up with you and your dysfunction."

 

Never ask them why are they acting a certain way, do they care, why are they treating you this or that way, this smells of desperation to them.

Edited December 17, 2013 by Britain

[Britain]

But then again, you could have a MM like mine who would decipher these words as that I am heads over heels for him and am lusting for him and his body.

[Britain]

THEN SIMPLY DON'T AGREE TO SEE HIM.

 

You won't be confused with your actions. You'll be acting consistently with your beliefs and values.

 

Conflict ended.

 

I did end it. I sent a brief, quick, and to the point note, basically centering around the fact that I am too good for this and it is done with and wished him the best in all future endeavors.