Flirting with a taken girl

[steveT95]

I've posted about this before but the situation has developed. Or maybe it has just developed in my head.

So there's this girl at college that I have been talking to more and more over the last few weeks.

We text each other loads, she send me lots of Snapchats and we generally get on really well.

We watched a film together, at college but in private. And we sat quite close to each other, we weren't holding hands but they were touching.

She seems interested in me.

 

Problem is she has a boyfriend. But she says she doesn't feel anything anymore and they don't really do much together and aren't lovey dovey at all.

 

For now she's a friend but I feel it could escalate. I have feelings for her. We're planning a trip to London and a week holiday away together in June with some friends so I don't feel I can just open up about things.

 

She told me she talks to me more than she talks to her boyfriend and she feels like she's known me for a lot longer than she has.

 

I don't know how to continue with this, I want a relationship with her.

[Keenly]

Flirt and talk with her all you want , but do NOT touch or kiss her until she is single.

[emva07]

I don't understand these people that "no longer feel anything" for their partners but stay with them

 

she either likes the attention you give her

 

or

 

wants to have you as a sure backup to leave her man.

[steveT95]

Any suggestions on how to express my feelings without being totally repulsive? I want her as a friend either way.

[mammasita]

I don't understand these people that "no longer feel anything" for their partners but stay with them

 

she either likes the attention you give her

 

or

 

wants to have you as a sure backup to leave her man.

 

Exactly. WTF Is wrong with her? She's not happy, they don't talk.....why the hell is she with him?

[steveT95]

I think it's secure. It's the norm for her now so it's harder to break free I guess.