Saurren Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 She went to a club on Nov 30th and left people behind at the club and came and got me to hang out late. Her sister was suppose to collect those people and take them home. We ended up going back and found no one. We then decide to go to her sister's place and her (guy roomate) kicked us out for talking outside the house. My gf was upset at this and she didn't want my comfort and then finaly contacted me on Dec 4. On Dec 4th she texted me. her-there are mice in my room me-make them your pets like Cinderella her-I'm not a princess me-Cinderella wasn't a princess until she got married her-lol shut up smarty pants me-well its a kids movie not rocket science lol her-whatever me-ok then her-you always treat me like ****, you are so unfriendly and thats why you have zero friends and I don't eve know why I'm staying. me-ok wow, where did that come from? me-I was just teasing you. her-whatever her-I'm so done her-It's over Then on Dec 10 she texted my late at night around 12 just saying hi. I havent responded and I don't know if I should. P.S I went NC the whole time she said it was over and the time when she was upset about her sister's roomate kicking us out of their front yard.
Author Saurren Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Well since no one wants to help me if I should reply or not, I guess I should update my story. Ever since the 10th of Dec she has texted me every night at 11 p.m just saying "Heyyy" and then with a random comment like "Nashville is in Tennessee". I haven't replied back because she will just keep this 11 o'clock entertainment schedule going. Maybe I will reply one day when I feel like it, but for now I don't need a friend like you.
Clay Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Normally don't even look at this section on the web site just thought I would look today. It does suck she did what she did but I would take it for what it is. It sounded like you were being nice and she was just kicking you. I would stay no contact and move on. There are far better women out there. Dump you over a txt. Now that is cold. Shows how much she cared. Clay
Author Saurren Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Never been dumped over text message before, but it feels a lot colder than I'd imagine.
Clay Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 I have never been dumped by txt. It is cold as hell. I would never contact her again. If I seen her in the street I would be nice but it would be like we were never anything. It would just be like a acquaintance. A woman that is willing to just dump you like that just showed what kind of a person she is. Trust me there are far better women out there. I would keep ignoring her txt and walk away. Clay
Author Saurren Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Yeah I plan to stay NC and not become her 11 o"clock entertainment. I just hope she don't come knocking on my door, maybe I'll just ignore that too. lol
Clay Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 My best advice for you is to go date other women. Go have a good time and move on with your life and never look back. There are lots of things to do in the world than worry about one woman. When I divorce I dated and went on a vacation and bought a new truck. Some of it did not work out so well but I can tell you I lived for me. I don't regret any of it. Clay
Author Saurren Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Buying a new truck seems fun and maybe I'd even get a couple dates with it. Maybe you're right I should just live for my own enjoyment and not for one person.
Clay Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 I would just do what makes you happy. You are only here once so enjoy it while you can. Clay
Zahara Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Yeah I plan to stay NC and not become her 11 o"clock entertainment. I just hope she don't come knocking on my door, maybe I'll just ignore that too. lol Ignore her knocks on the door. What a clown. Takes it out in you by going silent because someone kicks her out. Breaks up with you over banter about mice and Cinderella, then feels entitled to just text you with stupid meaningless crap expecting you to jump? Screw that. She sounds like a selfish, entitled, immature brat. Please stay away from this one. All you'll get from this is a whole lot of temper tantrums and break-ups for no reason.
ponchsox Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 If your employer fired you, would you want to contact them after they let you go? Would you beg for them to take you back? No, you start looking for another job while enjoying your time off. Same thing after a relationship.
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