theonlyjuan Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I was with my ex for 5 months and been broken up for 6 months. I am totally fine now and happy. I would say that I am fully recovered. I can't remember a lot of the relationship, it's all going very blurry in my mind. Is this selective memory? I have always had a pretty bad memory but it wasn't that long ago. I don't know if subconsciously I am blocking it out or not. I struggle to remember what month certain memories were in. I have kept myself busy and I haven't been hanging on to memories of us, maybe that is why they are fading. When I see her it feels like I hardly knew her. Feels like someone I knew but not very well, certainly not someone I was with for 5 months I just find it a bit strange but it has probably benefited me
Mariposa10 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Something like this is happening to me... It's really scary. I want to remember a certain event that happened in my relationship, but I can't remember... I even tried going through emails or text messages(when I used to have them, I've deleted them all), but I couldn't find the info I was looking for... It's crazy...
Freeman1123 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Hadn't thought about it but yeah. Thinking about my relationship of 3 years which ended nearly 2 years ago, I can remember certain points but a lot of it is a bit hazy. Weird
reddragon588 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I try to spend more time thinking about the future than the past.
forgetmenot75 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 If you just cant remember, don't force the thoughts. Otherwise they may invade you again. congratulations on your healing. I remember you well. you are doing great
mtnbiker3000 Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 I try to spend more time thinking about the future than the past. Even better yet: The present!!!
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