RegretBreakup Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I broke it of originally because of her being shady and cold towards me.. She doesn't even want to have sex and after a week of break up I asked her if she wants to work things out because I love her and she said she wants to be single and alone. Since then I did no contact she contacts me twice probably just fishing. We broke up 2 months ago. We were together for 2 years.. I have a new GF now. And my ex is still on my facebook. Is it better to just remove her? She is probably wondering why I have a new gf so fast or probably she got hurt too. I know deep inside that she cared and loved me.
theonlyjuan Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Yeah, I would. No good will come from having her on there, for you and her. 1
reddragon588 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Without even reading, yes. The answer to this question is always yes. 1
Haydn Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Remove and stop playing games with her. Block for good measure so you are not tempted to see her happy with someone else after she gets over you as you were the dumper. Leave her alone and concentrate on trying to make your new GF happy. I am sort of in a new relationship now and i want to make it work so i have no no no no contact at all with the ex. If she contacts i will never reply. Take care. 2
SonOfAGun Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 It all depends, it sounds as if you've moved on so it's not your problem. If you're not bothered about her either way just 'hide' her status updates etc and leave her be. I'd only take the step of deleting/blocking an ex when they have moved on & you're struggling to get over it, I had to do this yesterday haha. 1
Fangorn Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Yeah, I'd even go so far as to block her. Send her a message explaining that she doesn't need to torture herself by seeing what you're up to. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 If for no other reason, I think your new GF would prefer that you unfriend the old GF. 2
Author RegretBreakup Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 actually I still haven't move on completely and I still have feelings for my ex. it sucks It all depends, it sounds as if you've moved on so it's not your problem. If you're not bothered about her either way just 'hide' her status updates etc and leave her be. I'd only take the step of deleting/blocking an ex when they have moved on & you're struggling to get over it, I had to do this yesterday haha.
Author RegretBreakup Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 Actually I was a "Force Dumper" . Didn't want to do that.. but she gave me no choice.. she just pushes and pushes me to my limits.. I think that's her game plan cause she didn't want to end it so she waited for me. As you can see my username "RegretBreakUp" -_- Remove and stop playing games with her. Block for good measure so you are not tempted to see her happy with someone else after she gets over you as you were the dumper. Leave her alone and concentrate on trying to make your new GF happy. I am sort of in a new relationship now and i want to make it work so i have no no no no contact at all with the ex. If she contacts i will never reply. Take care.
notthathard Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Actually I was a "Force Dumper" . Didn't want to do that.. but she gave me no choice.. she just pushes and pushes me to my limits.. I think that's her game plan cause she didn't want to end it so she waited for me. As you can see my username "RegretBreakUp" -_- Yep sounds like it. I knew someone in the exact situation sometime ago, he didnt want to let her go so he waited and she dropped him after almost 1 year of dragging the relationship. He knew but didnt want to loose her for certain reasons.
Mariposa10 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 How can you have a new girlfriend if you still have feelings for your ex girlfriend... Do you at least really really like your new girlfriend? Or how does it work? Do you see yourself falling for the new girl? Another thing, yes, just leave her alone. She must be super confused about all the mixed signals you sent her. Asking her if she wanted to give it another try, while looking for a new girlfriend, etc...
ponchsox Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I dropped my ex gf from Facebook the night she broke up with me. I never understand why ex's remain Facebook friends. 1
Author RegretBreakup Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 Feelings just doesn't go away easily. After 2 years of being together we are used to be there for each other.. But I already accept the fact that is over between us and we are both moving on.. Yea I do like my new girlfriend now she is a nice and awesome girl and we are taking things just slow. How can you have a new girlfriend if you still have feelings for your ex girlfriend... Do you at least really really like your new girlfriend? Or how does it work? Do you see yourself falling for the new girl? Another thing, yes, just leave her alone. She must be super confused about all the mixed signals you sent her. Asking her if she wanted to give it another try, while looking for a new girlfriend, etc...
Mariposa10 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Feelings just doesn't go away easily. After 2 years of being together we are used to be there for each other.. But I already accept the fact that is over between us and we are both moving on.. Yea I do like my new girlfriend now she is a nice and awesome girl and we are taking things just slow. I see, I understand... I was just surprised that you got a girlfriend in 2 months... It's good you two are taking things slowly. Good luck!
whichwayisup Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 First off, out of respect for your new girlfriend, DO delete your ex off of your facebook. There's absolutely NO point in having your exgf knowing about your life, reading your updates, seeing pictures. Delete and block, then put her out of your head. 2
fixing Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I will just echo everyone else. Yes, out of respect for your new gf. Also it just makes sense to cut ties because you could be hurting her unintentionally by giving her updates on your new love life and perhaps vica versa? DELETE 1
Author RegretBreakup Posted December 12, 2013 Author Posted December 12, 2013 Thanks to everyone. I removed and blocked her.. Just feel bad though I know she wanted to keep in touch with me and be friends prob string me along till she finds someone.. oh well life goes on
Mariposa10 Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 Thanks to everyone. I removed and blocked her.. Just feel bad though I know she wanted to keep in touch with me and be friends prob string me along till she finds someone.. oh well life goes on Pretty much what you did?! Anyway, good luck with your new relationship. Hope you and your ex can move on smoothly...
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