NYC-BigKat Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I saw a girl that's a friend of a friend so I added her & she accepted so we started talking & stuff & I complimented her on how nice her teeth was & I really like her hair & stuff so I told her & she thanked me so I asked her to meet up Monday at the train station. Um...she said okay but then wanted to know why I didn't have a car so I lied & said it was in the shop 'cause I'm not gonna have her lose interest 'cause I cant drive yet u know. So I wait for her & she's late by like 20 minutes or something & when I see her she looks a little different from the facebook pics but still very pretty. But now for the bad part . She tells me that the facebook pic is not me but it is & I try hard to explain that it was the way the angle of the camera but she wont believe me then tells me not to contact her again & leaves me there . I caught an anxiety attack 'cause she made me believe that she liked me & it was a lie. I don't know what to do now 'cause I feel like girls keep tricking me & same thing with the Asian girl at work 'cause now she's ignoring me & I feel like if I try another girl I'm gonna get tricked every time .
ExpatInItaly Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Just how different is the pic you have online? If this has happened a couple times, you might want to reconsider how you represent yourself - find one that looks more like the real you.
Lansing Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 You should have confidence in who/what you are instead of lying or misrepresenting yourself (i.e. saying your car is in the shop, using flatering/unusual pictures of yourself, etc).
tlegend Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I saw a girl that's a friend of a friend so I added her & she accepted so we started talking & stuff & I complimented her on how nice her teeth was & I really like her hair & stuff so I told her & she thanked me so I asked her to meet up Monday at the train station. Um...she said okay but then wanted to know why I didn't have a car so I lied & said it was in the shop 'cause I'm not gonna have her lose interest 'cause I cant drive yet u know. So I wait for her & she's late by like 20 minutes or something & when I see her she looks a little different from the facebook pics but still very pretty. But now for the bad part . She tells me that the facebook pic is not me but it is & I try hard to explain that it was the way the angle of the camera but she wont believe me then tells me not to contact her again & leaves me there . I caught an anxiety attack 'cause she made me believe that she liked me & it was a lie. I don't know what to do now 'cause I feel like girls keep tricking me & same thing with the Asian girl at work 'cause now she's ignoring me & I feel like if I try another girl I'm gonna get tricked every time . 1) You should have someone take a picture of you in what you consider your best pose. 2) Compare that with what you are showing people on your facebook. Do they look the same? If the answer is yes: Go back to step 2) If the answer is no: Go back to step 1) 1
Avulare Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 If you guys were friends on Facebook, surely both of you guys scrolled through each others' photos to get a good idea of what the other looks like?
StanMusial Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Did you at least get a chance to touch her hair before she ran off? 3
Zahara Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I'm sorry OP, you seem to always be getting into all sorts of wrong when it comes to pursuing women.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 what's your pic look like? Also never lie to her about anything... if you got game they'll accept you for who you are. No need to try to impress her about a car... just be honest. But maybe you need to change your pic. I can help you. Add me on facebook and send me a message to let me know it's you. good luck bro. https://www.facebook.com/OBHav "Brandon Havener" My pic looked normal I guess. I had on shades & my arms was folded to my chest to look cool that's all. The only reason I told her the car was inside the shop was 'cause I was put on the spot & felt weird to say I don't drive when girls usually act all strange when they hear it & I hate that. Now she blocked me from facebook so I cant find her . Why is she going out of her way to be so mean now?!
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