rweb7 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 This is gonna be a bit long, sorry!.. So i've been seeing this great girl for 2 1/2 months now. We've been of several dates, of which we laughed and enjoyed each other's company. I should mention she's an 18 year old soon-to-be university student, starting classes in January. We text and keep in communication almost all the time. for almost a month now, she has become busy. The other week she had bake sale things to get done; making a crap-ton of baked goods. Last week she was busy with her final exams, for university entry, now this week she's helping her sister make a crap-ton of baked goods for her bake sale (christmas charity) not to mention she is going away for 2 weeks to Hawaii for her christmas, which sucks for me! I called her the other day, unfortunately my brain ran off somewhere, but she did mention that she didn't think she'd be able to date this month, but when school starts (jan 6) she'll be free. She also said she romantically likes me. But she appears very busy, as it's hard to keep in contact with her anymore, as it takes 1-4 hours for her to reply to me. Then agreed to Skype, but she never has time, but she said probably this week she could. I called her an hour-and-a-half ago and it went straight to voicemail, assuming her phone's off. I left her a voicemail to see what was going on lately, and if she still had interest in dating me. She did get into a car accident the other week, and told me she hasn't recieved her rental car yet; so she is car-less. She won't let me pick her up because me going to her place and back, then that again, would put me at 4 hours of driving and said she couldn't let me do that. So obviously that's a huge factor in us getting together. (which is some-what understandable) The biggest problem I have with her is that, i haven't seen her in almost a month.. She was suppose to come over last sunday at 12 pm, but she said her head lights on her car were out, and couldn't drive at night. So of course, it being winter, the sun fell at around 4-4:30 and had to leave at 3. Then she would arrive at my house at 1, leaving us with 2 hours of time. So we decided to call it off. She then said she might be free saturday and sunday, so, today i asked if i could see her then. She replied: "no haha" I got pretty pissed when i read that.. It's was like saying: "no thanks **** you!" you know?.. We got along so well, and we really connect. Now it feels like our potential relationship is in the crapper. I'm not sure what to do. I'm gonna talk to her on the phone, and see whats going on, and if the call goes south, then i'll likely end it. But my sister and friends say I should move. But i'm a picky dater, and this girl is literally a one-in-a-million to me, and i'd hate to let her go.. I've been thinking of dating other people, while she's busy and away on vacation. My sister told me that: "if a girl likes you, whether or not she's busy, she'll find time to get together with you." which is very true I think. What should I do? She likes me romantically and all that, but can't seem to get together with me? Should i be considerate of her temporarily busy life, wait it out, and wait till she's free. (while I see other people)? Thanks in advance for all your opinions/experiences. I'm clearly in a nut-shell here!
forgetmenot75 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Ask her when you can see her. Keep this in mind: BUSY= NOT INTERESTED She doesn't seem to be interested in you, still you can always try if you think it's worth it...I'd say move on, but you know best...
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