Just smile Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I'm officially crazy. I wrapped up everything he gave me along with a card that read, I'm glad you've found happiness and I've never meant to cause pain. The ending was enevitable and the silence is a sign that there is no love there ... I mailed it! Wtf! I give up I'm going into hiding.
Zahara Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 You're not crazy but acting bat**** crazy. You're just finding every absolute way to get this man to react to you. Go into hiding and do whatever it is you need to do as long as you stop this. 1
forgetmenot75 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Just Smile: you're not crazy. You're desperate, and that's a very different thing. Although when we are desperate, we do crazy things What do you expect from what you've done, sending him his things and writing that letter? It's obvious that the silence is a sign of indifference when speaking of dumpers, that's no revelation. You probably want some kind of response, and you'll feel miserable when he answers with silence. Plus, you've returned things that he gave to you as presents. That are not meant to be returned. you've probed to him you still care, and you're still hurting. My advice is to move on. you already know this, right? What's done it's done, just don't wait for a response, that'll probably never come. Sorry you're hurting 1
LostConfused123 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Well unfortunately, you will probably feel awful if he doesn't respond. And awful if he does with something you don't want to hear. I would just let it go (I know, sounds impossible) and just don't do something like that again. I'm sure you won't though. You probably learned your lesson. We all do crazy things we regret when we are in love and in pain. Just push forward and learn from this and be glad you didn't send a Ken doll stuck with pins and fake blood! That would be way worse! (No never done that ) Best of luck. it will be okay ((hugs))
Softie Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Just smile - I did a very similar thing, I sent back everything the cards, the couple of love notes, the photos of us doing fun things. I sold a couple of gifts on eBay. Part of me regrets doing this as I did it when I was angry but your not crazy. We want attention and for them to wake up and smell the coffee taking any route we see fit at the time. So it's not just you, I know that gives little comfort but your not alone in your thoughts or actions xxx 1
fixing Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 We have all been there and done that. seriously, put it in the back of your mind on focus on the future. With out him. I know its very hard, but you will come through just fine in the end 1
Author Just smile Posted December 12, 2013 Author Posted December 12, 2013 Here it is : Just stop!! You're driving yourself crazy and making a bad situation worse. I've not been, nor have I had the desire to be with another woman since I met you. I love you but I can't stand you. There is much better than me out there and after 3 weeks I'm sure you've had a taste of something. Just don't settle. You deserve the best. Sent from my iPhone I didn't reapond...
Zahara Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 Here it is : Just stop!! You're driving yourself crazy and making a bad situation worse. I've not been, nor have I had the desire to be with another woman since I met you. I love you but I can't stand you. There is much better than me out there and after 3 weeks I'm sure you've had a taste of something. Just don't settle. You deserve the best. Sent from my iPhone I didn't reapond... Don't respond. Just let it die. You have to move on now.
Author Just smile Posted December 12, 2013 Author Posted December 12, 2013 There's very little to say what could I say No choice but to move on ..he hates me anyway,
Zahara Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 There's very little to say what could I say No choice but to move on ..he hates me anyway, He doesn't hate you. He's just frustrated and he realizes that there is no possible future for you both. Letting you go is not an indication that he hates you.
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