debshere Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I took people's advice and went on POF and met this guy that wants to get together with me mostly for sex. This was a couple days ago. We have had some pretty steamy sessions by text. So, we want to meet up but I have never done anything like this before and want to know how can I do this and be safe. We are going to get together first just to chat, see if we click, etc. Where can we do that. If we decide we want to have sex where do we do that. I will not bring him to my home because I def don't want him to know where I live. Please help. And this isn't a post asking for people's judgments that I'm doing this. If you read my previous post you see I really don't have a lot of options. And just for an update the potential FWB guy keeps contacting me daily but never arranging to get together.
salparadise Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Well, standard procedure is to meet in a public place such as a restaurant or coffee shop. As to where to go to safely bang him... probably ought to do that in a public place as well.
Author debshere Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 Well, standard procedure is to meet in a public place such as a restaurant or coffee shop. As to where to go to safely bang him... probably ought to do that in a public place as well. Sorry, that made me giggle.
Sappa Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I agree with the go and meet in a public place thing. If you start getting any bad vibes about him don't be afraid to pull the whole "gotta run friend is in trouble!" card and peace out. As far as the sex part goes, other than the fact you guys met online how is it any different from meeting elsewhere. You go on a date to establish a closer and somewhat more trustworthy relationship with the person. Sure you have more time to tthink about what you'r going to say over texts, but you're not going to know someone's true intentions by dancing with them in a nightclub, flirting with them at a social, or meeting romanticall at the library.
d0nnivain Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Tell a friend where you will be going. Meet someplace public first. Text or call a friend discretely when you get there. Tell that person what your OLD looks like & is wearing. If you can scope out a car license plate to give your friend, that wouldn't be a bad idea. If it feels weird, creepy or you get a bad vibe, don't do it. I'd go to a hotel for the actual hooking up part. Take seperate cars. You pick the hotel. Tell the friend again where you are going. Check in 2-3 hours later. None of this will save your life, but it may help somebody catch your killer later. 1
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