manoflaser Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Hey, I'm looking for advice on how to approach this girl at my school. Ever since I saw her I have been going crazy over her staring at her picture in my yearbook and what not. Not many guys think that she is very attractive because she doesn't have much of a chest, but I think she is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. I don't have any classes with her but I see her at lunch with a big group of friends. I don't know whether or not she has a boyfriend, but I'm really hoping she doesn't. Only problem is I have no idea how to approach her and talk to her, it would look way too much like I was obsessed with her if I just sat next to her and started talking. Someone help! Thanks.
udelgirl Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 you know, sometimes just a simple innocent smile will do the trick if she smiles back, it'll be encouraging.. and just smiling at her whenever you see her will pique her interest, eventually you can bring it up to a Hi how are you? kind of thing. It lets her know you're interested but it's not too pushy/stalkerish. hope that helps and best of luck!
manoflaser Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Hmm I should probanly start doing that, the thing is though she scares me to death. I'm near terrified of her but I guess I'll have to get some balls and take some action.
iceisles Posted January 4, 2005 Posted January 4, 2005 Originally posted by manoflaser I guess I'll have to get some balls and take some action. There ya go. Just go for it. No matter how it turns out, you'll be glad that you at least tried. Just think of how many relationships never materialize because people keep quiet about their feelings. Don't be stuck in that crowd. Confidence is hard to muster, but it will continue to build once you cross a few hurdles. Good luck.
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