ScarlettWings Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Okay so my now ex boyfriend and I were together for three months. three amazing months i might add, we never fought and as far as i knew we were both very happy. We knew of each other in high school but didnt click till three months ago at a friends cottage. Well it was great, i was the happiest i had ever been in any relationship and he was happy too or so he claimed. He would text me every morning saying "good morning beautiful" and "good night baby" and we spent almost every day if not talking and then spending it together with his and or my friends. Well one day last week he didn't text me like he normally does in the morning and there was no contact all day which was abnormal and then he texted me in the afternoon saying "we need to talk." I knew what was going to happen the second i opened the door. He was crying when he was doing this, saying that this was the hardest thing he has ever had to do. I dont think ive ever seen him so upset but pretty much he told me that "I am amazing, that i make him crazy happy and that he thinks im perfect for him. Were compatiable in every way like we have the same hobbies, tastes in movies, music, books. His friends love me and so does his family and visa versa with mine but he doesnt think i'm "the one" I was distraught and crying of course and so was he. I tried asking what he meant cause how can i be perfect yet not this one and how he can know only after three months? He just kept on saying that he is an utter fool for doing this because he doesnt want to hurt me and he doesnt know why he is feeling like im not this "one" even though i am perfect but that he needed to break it off. I did ask him ifhe was just confused and maybe he will change his mind and he started off saying no but then switched it to He didnt know he was confused and he doesnt know why he is thinking this. he then proceeded to tell me that he still wants me in his life and if i ever need to talk i can call or text him at any time and that hes sorry but then he just left me there crying. All his friends then found out and everyone is in total shock because not even 24 hours before hand he was telling them all how awesome i am and that he was excited for Christmas. So there all in total shock and some of these people have known him for 13 years. There all saying that he is scared and confused and is making a huge mistake. I also learned after the fact that all of his previous ex's have all cheated and hurt him deeply. I am the only one who hasn't so perhaps he got scared? I just dont know what to do, he has agreed to come over so we can talk as it has already been a week since he dumped me. So I'm just in a total loss and im hurt and heart broken. Like how can he know if i am this "one" in three months is beyond me, we didnt rush the relationship. I let him set the pace. All i know is that i have never been as happy as i was with him and i do want him back
PegNosePete Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Sounds like he found someone who he does consider "the one" more than you... sorry to say...
RDawg Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Sounds like he is one messed up puppy. Maybe he was sugar coating it for you, he probably didn't have the guts to tell you he's not that into you anymore. If he was having such a great time why else would he leave?
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