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i actually have a prob i dated a girl for pretty much 7 months,it was actually very difficult as she never liked anything i did,she was always unhappy about everything i did she still had feeling for her ex she was always talking of him,then someday she told me she wanted to stay friends then i left after one month trying to stay friends,she had a friend with whom i used to chat we like pretty much same things but she was abroad later on she came on holidays in my country and i dated her for like 3 months it was the perfect relationship i was myself we could share everything we had stuff in common,but sadly she went to her native country again, at first she deleted me frm fb but we were talking on messenger then she added me again as i asked her i didn't want to lose her,lately she asked me about my feeling and i told her it was the same as before,its been 8 months since she went to her native country and since two weeks now i started thinking about my ex ex girlfriend through i don't like her since i kinda feel like she used me,we never had a closure and its making me sad i keep seeing her face i don't know why i'm feeling like this, once she pm me on facebook try talking to me with some excuse of returning her one stuff she gave me i just said ok i'll give it to you jst gave it to one of her friend i knew at gym! been 11month i didn't talk to her, i don't know should i talk to her just to make sure shes ok,i don't want her back in my life,i've checked her fb account three times as i can't figure out why i'm thinking about her when i don't want her in my life,through i still talk to my other ex and i can't tell her about this as i even don't know why i'm thinking like this! as my ex ex was really bad for me not someone i would like in my life through i did try to make it work before! any reply would be welcome or anyone who did feel like me i even lost weight and i'm feeling like this for the past two weeks!

and through i work at home this keeps stressing me!

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Hey cyber77

 

Please try and space your text into paragraphs, it makes it much easier to read. (Sorry I know English is probably not your first language.)

 

I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. There is no easy answer to your problem. If you don't want her in your life but you're still obsessed with her it means you are still "in love" with her.

 

I think the only thing you can do is try and remeber why you don't want to be with her every time her memory pops into your head.

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thanks man yeps i'm kind of more at ease with french,i mean i didn't think of her for about 10 months and now i start thinking of her again,i can't figure it! all i want is to make sure it aint love :/

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