Grimhildr Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I was looking on google for this same subject and found this website. It was a guy who had a lab partner and he asked her out she didn't say anything and just ignored it. Well something similar happened to me, but with a few differences. For instances this isn't the first time and last time I asked her what her deal was and she went off on me. Not only was I ignored once I had asked her out previously and she said yes, well that week she was getting her car fixed on the day of our date. Well I'm sitting there on the day waiting for her to send me a text telling me when she's ready but then 7 o'clock roles around and no answer. Well I call her up and she tells me she had to spend more money than she previously surmised and I said that's cool, I was disappointed, but I told her there's always next week. Then that's when I got first ignored when I tried to get confirmation for where we were going and she says something along the line of she wasn't free at that time so I could go without her. I was like, wtf right because she knew I was asking her out and she made it seem like I was asking her to tag along. anyway she begins to ignore me after this fiasco and I in turn acted like nothing was wrong and responded like I didn't care. Well some time passes like this (and btw we work together so I see her every day and don't say anything) and then she starts talking to me again. Well I decided after some time of talking to her and getting along well I tell her how I feel, she even seemed happy to hear me say I liked her like that. Then I ask her if she wants to go on a date some time she says Sure, as two cool people enjoying life. I don't know what it meant but she said sure, but because she said the second part I said so thats a no right? then she says she's lost well I play it off and say so saturday good? no answer. then a little more time passes of ignoring it and then we start talking and really talking I mean sex talk and we decide to hang out soon and all that it's going really good. Well I asked her yesterday if she would let me treat her to a movie and a homemade meal, no response whatsoever, I only sent one other text and called once to no avail. Well my question is this, is she interested in me or not? I have no idea at this point and it's getting to the point I don't care either, so I just need some advice on the situation right now, and thanks in advance I'll be monitering this thread. Oh and I'm new hi!
OrangeSnack Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I honestly think you're wasting your time. She sounds indecisive and you sounded quite firm. You were consistent too so really it's her loss. NEXT...
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