napy666 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 What has been the worst way you and your partner have broke up? Which would you say is the best way to break up with someone?
chrysene Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 The guy couldn't get it up, and I gave up and left the building. Utterly bizarre, retrospectively comical, and totally traumatic all at once. Two weeks later he asked if the relationship could be saved. Hell No! Pretty sure that's the culmination of a dead relationship. Yesterday was 1 month breakup milestone, NC learned from and helped by this forum, with many thanks to you all here.
notthathard Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 The guy couldn't get it up, and I gave up and left the building. Utterly bizarre, retrospectively comical, and totally traumatic all at once. Two weeks later he asked if the relationship could be saved. Hell No! Pretty sure that's the culmination of a dead relationship. Yesterday was 1 month breakup milestone, NC learned from and helped by this forum, with many thanks to you all here. Viagra ?
Just smile Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Lol my ex had issues in that department , low testosterone never could get hard enough to perform. And very very low desire to have sex. Yet... Loved to watch porn and masturbates and had weird ass sex fetishes, he could go without sex for weeks without even touching me,nothing , it was very difficult to deal with. I felt unattractive at times. Now, I'm sure he's whacking himself off until he is blind. 1
Mariposa10 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 (edited) For me the worse way to breakup with someone is when your ex has someone else already waiting for her/him. Or when they breakup with you OUT OF THE blue, that must **** you put really bad. Or when they do it via texting/email. The best way to breakup with someone would be by talking about the problems we're having so the other person can know what's going on... if that doesn't get fixed breakup with that person and then go NC for at least a month... Edited December 11, 2013 by Mariposa10 2
lil hoodlum Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 For me the worse way to breakup with someone is when your ex has someone else already waiting for her/him. Or when they breakup with you OUT OF THE blue, that must **** you put really bad. Or when they do it via texting/email. The best way to breakup with someone would be by talking about the problems we're having so the other person can know what's going on... if that doesn't get fixed breakup with that person and then go NC for at least a month... I have to agree 100% with this. Someone walking away without even trying to communicate or fix issues totally sucks. Pardon me for not being a mindreader. And of course someone who does break up like this usually aren't very honest about the real reasons why they are breaking up with you!!! Walking away like this is a very cold, cowardly, and cruel way to end things with someone. 2
Keenly Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 The guy couldn't get it up, and I gave up and left the building. Utterly bizarre, retrospectively comical, and totally traumatic all at once. Two weeks later he asked if the relationship could be saved. Hell No! Pretty sure that's the culmination of a dead relationship. Yesterday was 1 month breakup milestone, NC learned from and helped by this forum, with many thanks to you all here. Wow. You walked out on a guy in his most vulnerable moment possible. Nice. You have ruined that man. 2
Author napy666 Posted December 12, 2013 Author Posted December 12, 2013 My break up was done over text but mine just didn't have the cuts to say it was over so I had too ha still sucked.
Simon Phoenix Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 All breakups basically suck. It's like asking if you'd rather get hit in the face by a 2x4 or a crowbar. Never once heard of a breakup (unless it's completely mutual, which is rare in itself) where the dumpee appreciates how the dumper breaks it off with them. 3
MissBee Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 (edited) Worst: Hmmm...when I was about 16/17 and we broke up because while I was catching up with an old classmate from elementary school on instant messenger, she asked if I knew him, I said yes he's my bf and she announced "He's my boyfriend too!" WTF?!!! Now it's comical but wasn't at the time. I found out he was cheating on me with her when he went to another state for the summer. She called him on 3way while I was secretly on the phone and he was lying about the nature of our relationship and when confronted of course got super defensive and rude. Some months later he did come back and try to apologize and admit his stupidity but I wasn't having it. So definitely breaking up because an acquaintance announces that your bf is her bf too and when you confront him he acts like you're the one who is wrong and not him is certainly one of the worst ways! Best: I think a good break up for me was one where we actually discussed not wanting to break up but agreeing mutually that because of circumstances it was better to do so. It hurt for a bit but in the end was best. I was off to college and he was off to another country and while we still loved each other it was best to just agree mutually to let it be. We're still friends to this day and there were no hard feelings because of how it was done: nothing shady, no back and forth, and natural LC since we both had new experiences in new places away from each other to attend to. That has been one of my better break ups. The mutual agreement one. Edited December 12, 2013 by MissBee
LostConfused123 Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 All breakups basically suck. It's like asking if you'd rather get hit in the face by a 2x4 or a crowbar. Never once heard of a breakup (unless it's completely mutual, which is rare in itself) where the dumpee appreciates how the dumper breaks it off with them. LOL! Right!
moki Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 He broke up with me 30 min before my job interview hahaha
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