whichwayisup Posted December 18, 2013 Posted December 18, 2013 homosexuality does not happen in this family so i think that i basically have been playing the part for all these years and now she's finally decided that she's done and to be honest with who she is. I just worry about my kids. I'm sure there are many out there who feel the same going through a separation. I guess i'd like to hear from them how their 5 and 7 year old have taken the news that Daddy will only see them every other day instead of taking them to school everyday or going to soccer practices. Bolded part. Would be nice if she was completely honest with you about this. I say when she gets back, just come clean and tell her point blank "I love you as the mother of our children, we'll always be in each others lives but I think we both know this marriage is not a true marriage in the sense of a husband and wife being as they should be towards one another,,, with that said, and I want you to be honest, no bullcrap or lies - Are you 1)having an affair 2) and is it with a woman. You all can do family counseling to adjust to all the changes. You two can still be great co parents, just in two different households. It's time to have that talk, otherwise you'll be in a no sex marriage for the rest of your life, and eventually you'll end up having an affair as well. OR, your other option is, discuss an open marriage and see how that works out for the both of you (if divorce can't happen, that's an option to think about). You two can have shared custody, and have overlaps, you don't have to miss any soccer games.
happyman64 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 This marriage will be over soon. Now it's about picking up the pieces and taking care of the kids. Are you saying that because you spoke to your wife and got the truth about her sexuality and cheating? Or because you have figured out the last 10 years of your marriage was a sham????
EasternStandard Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Are you saying that because you spoke to your wife and got the truth about her sexuality and cheating? Or because you have figured out the last 10 years of your marriage was a sham???? The wife seems to be looking for sex that someone isn't delivering. My 2 cents.
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