kiterider12 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 we are in our mid 20's. I met a girl many months ago and we became friends. Not talking everyday but I do trust her. She has stopped talking to a guy she was seeing but not dating a few months ago and she made it a point to tell me. I have began feeling more towards her. What are the tell tale signs shes interested? Since then, we talk from time to time. We both call each other sometimes (every other week or so) and end up talking for an hour. She has told me I am by far the most level headed person she knows. We'll text each other most days. She invited me to her families house for thanksgiving and made it a point to tell me her Aunts had a good discussion about me with her the next day. And that her dad has never talked to any of her exs as much as he did to me in that one night. In the last few weeks we began going to church together. Just me and her. She made it a point to meet my parents when they were in town and Really enjoyed them. I asked her to a company holiday party which she seemed happy to attend with me. I HATE reading into things. but what does the general public think? And what should i do? I am thinking about her a lot now. and wana keep asking her to hang out but dont want to over kill.
nescafe1982 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Only one way to find out. Ask her on an honest-to-goodness date. See what she says. Then you'll know.
d0nnivain Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Will there be dancing or mistletoe at the company party? Take advantage of both.
PegNosePete Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 You ask her on a date and she says yes. That is a pretty good sign.
devilish innocent Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 You need to speak with her. But I know the feeling when you really like somebody, are always thinking about them, and you really want to tell them, but it's terrifying because you don't know how they'll respond to it. I feel for you and what you're going through.
Author kiterider12 Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 I think im just scard of her saying no....or we are just friends. Or more importantly her being weird about it and not talking to me. And no there will be no dancing at the party. the only dancing i do is salsa and she doesn't dance at all!!
Targetlock Posted December 12, 2013 Posted December 12, 2013 bit of an awkward situation really, do you risk the friendship for something more? but then again how do you know, if you don't take a chance i suppose. had a couple of situations like this myself so i know the feelings.
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