ameliabedelia Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 So, I've been seeing this guy for two months and two weeks ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. But since then we've hardly talked (and yes I've made the effort to talk to him) and we haven't seen each other at all. Today is the 5th day in a row he's bailed on me cuz he's "sick." At first I believed him but I'm starting to get this gut feeling he's lying. He doesn't sound sick and he keeps going to work. What's the deal? Why is he doing this? Should I stop talking to him? Sorry if this sounds lame I'm just not super experienced with relationships.
ShyGuy5 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 What did you say when he asked you to be his girl? You also have to understand that although he might not be sick enough to skip work, going to work will take a lot out of him. Would you rather he spend his time with you when he is tired and not into it or wait until he is healthy so he can truly be with you and not out of it.
Author ameliabedelia Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 What did you say when he asked you to be his girl? You also have to understand that although he might not be sick enough to skip work, going to work will take a lot out of him. Would you rather he spend his time with you when he is tired and not into it or wait until he is healthy so he can truly be with you and not out of it. I said yeah because I like him and I thought he liked me too. But you're right I never thought about working taking it out of him.
ShyGuy5 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I'd give him time. He wants to be with you. It's not like you forced him to choose, he was the one that initiated the girlfriend talk. And he could also be trying to keep you from getting sick.
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