veamm Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 My story is I work abroad. I had the chance to have a vacation for 3 months in the Philippines. I knew this girl (rebounder) for a long time. Although I knew her we really aren't that close. She was a neighbour. While I was there she and I dated. She was so attracted to me and I fell in love with her as well. But during that time I always ask questions because I'm so curious about her and her past relationships and since I don't really know here that much. She's the type of girl that never tell stories, so I needed to ask her myself. So, She told me honestly that her ex left her. I don't know the exact reasons but he left. That time I was so blinded and I didn't care about the ex because she made me feel so special that time. Until, My vacation ended I must go back. The communication is still there for at least 1 and half month. During that time. I began to feel that her attraction to me became so inconsistent that made me confused. She told me that her ex came back. Few days later she stopped talking to me. I thought she needed space so I did let her but I knew that's the sign that she wants to go back to him even though she doesn't say it to me. A week after I called her personally and ask her what's going on. She told me that I have to stop and so on etc. I chased her for few days then I decided to stop. I know I'm stupid for doing that and not realising until it really hurted me. Its been 2 months of NC. (I'm not planning to break the NC). I still love her but its useless to show concern. I'm not hoping that she'll come back to me, but is there a possibility. I know I did left an impression on her. I did everything I could. And, I'm not waiting for her though. I'll try to move on without her. So, what do you think guys?
letsplaygofish2 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Sounds like she's not ready for a relationship with you, especially since you said her ex is in the picture. Not once did you say in your post that she was also in love with you, but you were in love with her. Also, you said that she had a hard time telling stories. I wonder why? Did she have something to hide or is it possible that she just doesn't know herself very well? I think that when two people are in a relationship they should be able to speak freely... I'm sorry
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