justmeal84 Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 Me and my ex broke up a couple weeks ago. Haven't really talked much. We both still have feelings for each other but things got boring routine and stale. A few nights ago we had a really good conversation that was light and fun. Just like old times. She said it was really nice talking to me and wished me goodnight. (I ended the conversation) Haven't talked to her in a few days so last night I prayed for god to give me a sign that I should stick with her. Then today as I was shopping i ran into her. We both were smiling and didn't really know what to say. I made some small talk said I was going shopping to get some new clothes. She seemed kinda shocked ( I admit I stopped trying to look good for her) I told her I needed to because I have been working out and dropped a jean size. She said that's awesome. I ended the conversation again by saying it was really nice talking to you the other night. She responded ya it really was. my thing i now what? I was thinking abou texting her tonight with something light like " Think i did pretty good on the new clothes, kept your fashion advice in my head, you always had good taiste." I used to come home from work and she had always bought me new clothes. She said she always like buying me stuff liked to make me happy. what ya think?
Mariposa10 Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 Who's the dumper in this situation? That's really important.
Author justmeal84 Posted December 10, 2013 Author Posted December 10, 2013 at first I was but then i changed my mind and wanted to work on things. then she broke it off 2 weeks later saying its to had trying to hold on to what we once had. I she misses me but is just worried that its gonna turn into the same thing. i should mention that when we talked a few days ago it was like she kept moving the conversation like she enjoyed talking to me again
letsplaygofish2 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 If it were me, I'd probably leave it and let her contact you. If you reach out to her, it may seem desperate as if you were looking for attention. Just let her reach out to you, especially since you guys had a good impression with each other while shopping. NC would be good... despite being right before the holidays :/
aelvidge Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I would contact her.... you never know she could be feeling the same way and sat there wondering if she should text you first or wait for you to make the first move....
ks0985 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Let her do the contacting. You played it cool at the mall and the ball is in her court.
No Limit Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Agreed, let her contact you first. The one who breaks up always should. Unless the breakup was for a good reason, then both should leave their hands away from each other.
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