Iguanna Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 How about you don't care? You can contact him to invite him for something casual one day (movies, football match or something) and if he declines, then the ball is in his feet. If he stops contact at all, you will know there went your friendship and you'll go on with your life.
Author verhrzn Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 How about you don't care? You can contact him to invite him for something casual one day (movies, football match or something) and if he declines, then the ball is in his feet. If he stops contact at all, you will know there went your friendship and you'll go on with your life. I just really hate losing the friendship. And I hate feeling like he blames me for it, when he didn't want to date me in the first place! It drives me crazy when people blame their own issues or problems on me, and for him to burn the bridge because he thinks it's my fault for moving on when he didn't want me makes me so angry. I'm just really sick of always burning bridges.
Els Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 V, I don't think there's anything that you can do about it. Getting a boyfriend has occasionally lost me a couple of male 'friends'. It's just how it is. You don't need to burn your bridge with him but neither do you need to bend over backwards to keep the friendship.
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