flight87 Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 SO.. been over 4months since my ex & i broke up and ive been ready to move on for a minute.. ANYWAY, i met this girl over a month ago well, i recently realised i like her. We been chillin, hanging out all that, almost on the regular. she said she likes hangin out with me, haha. guess thats a good thing.. first 2weeks knowing me, She invited me out to go club with her & her friends (who she asked if it was cool before even asking me if i wanted to go), i went and we had a good night, in the end she ended up staying at my house, in the same bed (nothing happened).. we never spoke about it, why should we. next day dropped her off at hers in the morning and we even caught up later that day. anyway, fast forward: just last week i gave her a ride to some work dinner she had, and i took her home aswell, we chilled after that, and this time i ended up staying at hers, in same bed again, nothing happened. she is cool with me having a daughter and all that, we have common interests and we seem to get along well, she talks to me about anything really.. so seems to me we click. i just need to know am i being crazy to like a girl within a month of knowing her, and do i tell her? how do i tell her? i know she looking for a relationship, i just dunno where i stand, hard as to read this chick want to tell her i like her, but just like anyone dont want that rejection LOL. any help be great!
princess_peach Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 Don't tell her. Next time you hang out with her, man up and go for a kiss. No matter how she responds, you'll get your answer.
Author flight87 Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 Thanks for the reply.. Yeah I should man up and make a move, I've figured as much, But, some ppl are telling me to tell her also.. So any help on what's better to do? Do I ask her where she is at?
Addison312 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Why don't you just ask her on a date? She wouldn't sleep next to you if she didn't like you.
Author flight87 Posted December 12, 2013 Author Posted December 12, 2013 Thanks for the reply, she might like me, but who knows.. I feel like I'm waiting for the "right moment" and I'm losing my chance, so I have to do something ASAP.. I might stop texting her so often (we talk almost everyday, is this too much?). She has to have some idea I like her, but I definitely need to do something, kiss her, ask her out again... I do know what I need to do tho prob just scared of the worst.. Lol
Author flight87 Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 (edited) UPDATE: The girl I like tells me tonight that she has been seeing someone for a little while now, possible relationship apparently.. but not BF/GF thing as yet. Why did she randomly tell me now n why not when it started? Is she messing with me and wants a reaction out of me? do i still let her know how i feel? or do i just let it go, move on? i feel if you want something go after it.. but yeah, ADVICE WILL BE COOL! Edited December 17, 2013 by flight87
Author flight87 Posted December 19, 2013 Author Posted December 19, 2013 Damn, No1 at all has any advice? Lol. Oh. And to add onto the whole thing we both knew we was looking for relationship when we met too
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