Leigh 87 Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 How long does it take you guys to fall in love? My ex and I said it after about 5 months. My best friend and her guy said it after a week and they are still together ...^^^^ they have had long term relationships before and are adamant they fell in love after about a week together ( and a month since they first met but were not actually together). My current guy and I are nearly in love after two weeks (since first meeting). The FWB I had fell in love with me within a month and had to get professional help due to him going crazy over me because I continued with him knowing full well he was in love with me, and then I abruptly ended it with FWB when I met a guy I felt " that way" about. (yes I am a moron for doing that to him:mad:) A guy one this website who is in his late 30's or early 40's said it on the second date... After having had long term R's and knowing when the real deal is in front of him... .... Some people think there are "those people" in life we fall for hard and fast. Other people think it is NOT true love if it is within 4 or 5 months. ...Myself and a few others on here think falling head over heels in love happens within about 3 months or less. I have observed others and I am fascinated with how and why people fall in love. It just interests me since everyone is so different.
OrangeSnack Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 I think the tendency is that the older you are the quicker you fall in love. But honestly everyone is so different. There is never the right time to fall in love. There's only the wrong time. One person might feel extremely in love with the other and the other just doesn't feel the same. Ideally both people Have to be on the same page. That's my 2cents
gabgab Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 My exes (out of the ones that said it sober anyways) only said it around 8 months of being together officially.
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