shan14 Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 Hi, i've been going through this very rough time and im not sure where to go from here. I've been dating this girl for close to a year. We know each other since kids, because we're family friends. Our families dont know that we are dating and they would never allow us to either because they see us as brother sister. Anyway, so we got intimate about a month ago. During this period she was talking to this guy which i used to get pretty paranoid about, but she told me to trust her that they are just friends. She went overseas for a wedding recently, and he was there as well. They've got much closer since then, and she told me that he likes her. I asked her whether does she, and she says she doesnt know. However, it's more to the clear side that she does. Before she went overseas for the wedding we decided that we would try and cut down on our intimacy and get back to being friends since our parents would never allow it and thats without question. However after this, i can feel she has become better, but i'm just not able to take it anymore. I want to be friends with her. But at this very moment after her trip, i feel played out by her. She says she wants to help me out with it, but i'm just not able to even talk to her because the other guy she's talking to is always on my mind, and im not able to take it. What should i do?
d0nnivain Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Before you can move forward, you need to pick a direction: friends or lovers. Then work toward strengthening that aspect of your relationship.
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