Freeman1123 Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 Right, I'm really confused with stuff. Known this girl for best part of 4 years, always been flirty on and off, last 18 months we've been seeing each other as more than friends. It all kicked off a few months ago with other people involved and she's moved away for a while. I want to move on with my life and forget about her so I said this to her the other day, whenever I'd spoken to her about it before she went she got really upset and said she still wanted in my life anyway she didn't answer so I text her like "Agree?x". She just text back this morning with "Sure x". What the hell!? Like I said I wanna move on but I want her to at least acknowledge me and show that I meant something to her? Should I just let her have the last word and try to move on or what?
Omei Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 So pretty much you want to move on she agreed but your upset she's not spilling her guts? I think you should leave it at what it is, let her move on too as well as you.
Author Freeman1123 Posted December 10, 2013 Author Posted December 10, 2013 Well yes, in a way. I could tell she didn't mean 'sure x' when she said it, she said it for a reaction from me.
Author Freeman1123 Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 Talking to her last night. I again told her it was best for both of us if we leave it completely, she spoke to me drunk the other night. She said she didn't agree because the last couple of months we've seemed really close. I told her to think about what I've said and she said ok and we left it there. She's out tonight. What should I do if she messages me drunk, i'm sitting on Facebook waiting to see if she comes online to talk to me for God's sake. I need some kind of distraction
chris21422 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 And why exactly are you doing that man? Why are you waiting for someone where you could be living your life and having fun Talking to her last night. I again told her it was best for both of us if we leave it completely, she spoke to me drunk the other night. She said she didn't agree because the last couple of months we've seemed really close. I told her to think about what I've said and she said ok and we left it there. She's out tonight. What should I do if she messages me drunk, i'm sitting on Facebook waiting to see if she comes online to talk to me for God's sake. I need some kind of distraction
Author Freeman1123 Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 And why exactly are you doing that man? Why are you waiting for someone where you could be living your life and having fun because she's been such an important part of my life, spoke to like everyday. I literally don't know what to do with myself without it involving her? :|
fixing Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Mate, she said 'Sure' and is out now enjoying herself? Wtf are you doing staying in 'waiting' for a message from her? Go and force yourself out of the house and have a few beers with your friends, or chat to some girls. Let things take their natural cause. Your being waaaaay to uptight here. Go out and have fun sir.
Author Freeman1123 Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 Aha when you put it like that I guess it does sound pretty stupid that i'm arsed, but still.
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