PhotoGuy Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 Ok, ill try to keep this is as short as possible. Background..... Im a guy, my brother is gay, i just moved back home and have been hanging out with him and his freinds from time to time. A few weeks ago I was out with this female freind of mine, one of her freinds showed up to meet us, this second girl is gay, very good looking, but gay. We all end up chatting havng a good time, blah blah blah. I go home.... end of night. Current......... A few nights ago the gay girl (well call her erica) calls me and says "come meet me at (barname)" So i go meet her, we talk for a few minutes and says "do you want to make out:" so im all about it, we kiss blah blah blah. Next night, new years eve, she calls me early on and says she wants to hang out with me. so we meet up she hangs with me and all my freinds...midnight rolls along and she wants to go watch the fireworks, we ditch everyone go to the square of our city midnight hits, we start kissing...fireworks go off and we kiss again. So the night goes on she leaves to go home..gives me a nice peck on the lips and that was that. So i think ok she just needed someone to hang with on new years, well she has been filling up my phone everyday calling etc etc etc.. So what sort of badness am i setting myself up for?
Mr Spock Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 Doesn't that make her bisexual? They never go home alone.
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 Originally posted by PhotoGuy So what sort of badness am i setting myself up for? None, if she is bisexual. You just have to be crystal clear about what you want and expect from the relationship, and set the appropriate boundaries together. If she is out and out lesbian, she could just be stepping to the other side for a while - but will ultimately return the the gender with which she is most comfortable (unless she has surpassed the choosing of partners based on gender - and has chosen you despite your gender). The key to success in this relationship is communication.
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