RegretBreakup Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 Cliffs - I ask Ex GF of 2years for a break cause she is distant and cold last October - Begged after 1 week to work things out. That I love her so much! She said NO and wanted to be alone - I did No contact straight away she contacts me after 3 weeks ( I replied.. she didn't ) - She contacts again last thanksgiving ( I replied after 2 days.. We talked and just argued ) - I text my ex Apologizing that I forgot to text her cause I am sick.. ( No reply from her ) - I blocked my ex number so she can't contact me anymore - I flirt with this girl that I knew first week of december and we are together now. - My ex is still on my facebook. So she probably saw I have a new GF now.. I'm confuse what to do right now. My ex wants wants to keep in touch with me so I knew she is just stringing me along and helping herself to move on and her facebook shows that she is partying and always going out every weekend. She is not like that before when are together. I am not healed yet and still love my freaking ex but this new girl is really nice and very sweet and pretty too.. My life is such a mess.. Any thoughts on what to do??
Saurren Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 Hmmm facebook is evil and you should block her newsfeed and any mutual friends newsfeed so you don't have to see how she is doing. Easy way of getting over her and at the same time you're not immature enough to remove as a friend off of facebook. 1
stillafool Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 You cannot be her friend because you still have romantic feelings towards her. If you really want to get over this girl stop using FB and stop all contact with her. Seeing as you are with someone new you shouldn't be talking to her anyway. Don't listen to her and you won't have to be hurt by her! 1
maturityassets Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 In my opinion you rushed into another relationship. Should have just dated the new GF for a while, 2 months or so to know if you are ready to commit. Not that I'm saying you did anything wrong, it's just what I would have done and did. Best thing to do is go completely NC... At this point you should be focusing on your current relationship is all. Best of luck! 4
Author RegretBreakup Posted December 9, 2013 Author Posted December 9, 2013 Should I just remove her in facebook instead? So there is no really way she can contact me? Hmmm facebook is evil and you should block her newsfeed and any mutual friends newsfeed so you don't have to see how she is doing. Easy way of getting over her and at the same time you're not immature enough to remove as a friend off of facebook.
Saurren Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 Should I just remove her in facebook instead? So there is no really way she can contact me? Don't remove her, just block her status updates on your newsfeed and any mutual friends you might have with her. 1
chris21422 Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 I say remove her in facebook. She doesn't belong in your life anymore and she might be really jealous lol.. Seems woman tend to want you back when you move on and they haven't.. Remove her and don't give her the priviledge and do No Contact 1
Author RegretBreakup Posted December 10, 2013 Author Posted December 10, 2013 Thank you everyone! I am thinking to break it off with my new girlfriend as it would be unfair to her. I am not sure if this is the right move but I do have feelings for her.. I still have thoughts of removing my ex in facebook. any other inputs? I appreciate all the help.
stillafool Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 Thank you everyone! I am thinking to break it off with my new girlfriend as it would be unfair to her. I am not sure if this is the right move but I do have feelings for her.. WHY? I still have thoughts of removing my ex in facebook. any other inputs? I appreciate all the help. I thought you were definitely going to remove her from FB so she can't reach you or find out anything about you?. 1
Author RegretBreakup Posted December 10, 2013 Author Posted December 10, 2013 I wanted to end it with her cause I think I am not ready yet.. I mean isn't it unfair for her if I still have feelings for my ex? or maybe my feelings for my ex will fade just give it more time? Some people suggest to remove her and some people said No cause she did nothing so I got a little confused. WHY? I thought you were definitely going to remove her from FB so she can't reach you or find out anything about you?.
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