Sabrina88 Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 Here's my story http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/cheating-flirting-jealousy/419050-my-long-distance-boyfriend-likes-my-friend I am not able to get past the feeling of being dumped...betrayed by my friend...i am feeling so sick inside...everyday i woke up with his thought that now my ex bf will be talking to my friend doing all the hings he use to do for me..for her.... I keep on stalking my ex boyfriend on social media...and based on the bits of information i get from there...i keep on imagining all the time what he will be doing now...i think i am going crazy...and its not just weeks that we broke up...we broke up in May 2013 and it's december now...and i am still a the same point...and my ex is getting married to my friend... Also, i am not able to understand "How can my ex treat me as an option in his life when i loved him so much"
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 I know this is really hard but u have to STOP looking it is only delaying your healing! take a stand and block him on everything u need to take control here... x u will get through this I promise x
Author Sabrina88 Posted December 9, 2013 Author Posted December 9, 2013 I have unfriend him from social media and havent talked to him since may except once in august...but still i keep on peeking into his profile and gathering info about him...like what is happening in his life....and the thoughts of him being with my friend are not getting out of my mind,...doesnt mater how hard i try... every morning i wake up with the same thought..."he must be talking to my friend and how he can do this to me" I dont know how it is so hard to me to get over him and to him it doesnt even matter...it was so easy for him to move on with some other girl
organizedchaos Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 I have unfriend him from social media and havent talked to him since may except once in august...but still i keep on peeking into his profile and gathering info about him...like what is happening in his life....and the thoughts of him being with my friend are not getting out of my mind,...doesnt mater how hard i try... every morning i wake up with the same thought..."he must be talking to my friend and how he can do this to me" I dont know how it is so hard to me to get over him and to him it doesnt even matter...it was so easy for him to move on with some other girl Then you need to block him to prevent you from looking. Trust me, I know how hard it is to resist. My ex doesn't post anything publicly so unfriending her on fb was good enough. However I occasionally peek at her instagram even though I blocked her from looking at mine (On instagram, blocking is only one way whereas on FB it's two ways). I haven't seen anything truly harmful, yet, but I need to stop before I do.
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