mina1687 Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 If you were questionable about someone from a guys past that you just started dating and you semi-talked about it with him, but still didn't feel comfortable with the answer he gave you, or you didn't feel that the answer was concise, would you feel it's acceptable to ask him one final time if the person of question is indeed out of the picture? For example would it be okay for me to ask "I'd like to confirm with you that Sara is entirely out of the picture. When we talked about it the other day I didn't feel entirely comfortable that this was the case." I hate the idea of beating a dead horse, but I also feel like for my own sake that I need to know for sure. He already knows I'm one who thinks too much and has said so himself so it should come as no surprise to him that I'd be wondering about it still. I figured if the tables were turned he'd be wondering himself Thoughts?
d0nnivain Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 How long are you dating? What other "evidence" do you have not to take this person at his word? Me, I would not ask again but I would guard my heart while keeping my eyes & ears open. Asking again signals that you are insecure & you don't trust the guy. If you really don't trust him, stop dating him but don't nag.
Author mina1687 Posted December 9, 2013 Author Posted December 9, 2013 How long are you dating? What other "evidence" do you have not to take this person at his word? Me, I would not ask again but I would guard my heart while keeping my eyes & ears open. Asking again signals that you are insecure & you don't trust the guy. If you really don't trust him, stop dating him but don't nag. We've been dating almost 3 weeks. I agree with what you said about the whole trust thing. It's really more so for my own benefit, not so much a trust issue. I just feel like I need to reconfirm this again for my own sanity. I like your idea of guarding my heart while keeping my eyes and ears open.
lifeunderground Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 No offense but 3 weeks is nothing. He's not your man don't act like a jealous girlfriend Has he said you're exclusive?
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