Jam23 Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 It's been 2 weeks since I last spoke to her. I'm feeling better and then I'm not really, it's kind of like I'm stuck. And the mention of my old friends name (her current placeholder) feels me with rage. I snapped on a friend for bringing him up. He has yet to even contact me and attempt to reconcile, he had her do it last time she spoke to me. I never saw him as such a spineless selfish excuse of a "man". It's been a month since she broke up with me and no one really understands what I'm going through, in fact some one told me to move on recently. Like I haven't tried to move forward or something. Like I'm choosing to dwell on them. I've tried to remain the bigger person through all of this by respecting them both and the choices they've made, but every day it gets a little harder to keep my calm and not break someone's neck. And the only other friend I've got that I can talk to also wants to break someone's neck so I just get angrier. Any advice guys? Am I doing the right thing by being respectful and not hurting my old friend? Does it make less of a man for essentially allowing him to get away with running off with my fiancé?
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