runforafall Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 Date 1 with OLD girl (casual drinks) went really well , lots of laughs, good banter, and we made out briefly a couple of times towards the end. She got in touch shortly after the date ended to say what a great time she had and hoped to meet again soon. I'm going to suggest another date in a few days and was wondering if it would send the wrong signals to invite her back to my place afterwards if date 2 goes as well as date 1. Just to say this upfront, I have no presumptions about sex (and absolutely no big deal if nothing like that happens), and would make this clear if I ask her, but feel it would be nice to spend some time in a more relaxed and intimate setting to have a chance to be a bit more physical without worrying about being surrounded by a million people (busy city). Is this too soon and a bad idea?
MidwestUSA Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 You may have no presumptions about sex, but inviting her to your place is going to send the signal that that's what you're after. If you just did drinks on date 1, what's wrong with dinner for date 2? Wouldn't that be more relaxed and intimate than a pub?
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