ViciousLaLa Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 Iv posted here a few times bout my ex. Recent thread was that I lied to my ex about having a bf that I had skyped. He stopped contacting me for a few days after that. When he finally messaged me, he said he was "away". We went back to normal talking after that. He even bothered getting on his cell to email me while out. He NEVER does this. Only time he'd do that was when he really missed me during our relationship. So the past week we been talking for hours none stop on Skype. No cam tho cuz we were gaming during these calls. The calls last 7-10 hours straight. No exaggeration. Last night I asked him to cam, we haven't in so long. First thing he says "skype? you should save that for your bf." I'm shocked he remembered I mentioned that bf thing. I do not have a bf, it was a mistake I said to get a reaction out of him I guess. I still haven't told him I'm actually single >_> After that message he took hours to reply -__- Thing with me and him, we are always in contact. We never go more than a dat or two without at least one message. I never message him first tho. It's always him to contact first. I'm always cool with being friends with my exs, but this one....idk I guess I do still care about him...a lot. I apologize for all the words .-. i just kinda had to vent it out. From what I've said, what do you people think? I'm 22, he's 25. We're both mature, but immature in a way, you know? I think I'm realizing I do feel for him a lot. Ugh, should I say some thing in the future? I know for a fact right now isn't the right time. I'm just so confused v_v please be gentle on my feelings.
justwhoiam Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 If you both spend 10 hours straight playing games on a regular basis, you're anything but mature. Sorry to say this, but I'm just being honest. And it looks like onscreen games are not the only games you like playing. As you make your bed, so you must lie in it.
soccerrprp Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 justwhoiam is onto something here. there's noting mature about playing games for hours and that is your idea of a relationship? you've never met in person from the sound of it. i just don't get adults wasting so much time gaming. i mean, once in a while, okay, but hours at a time every day? most days? ugh....so many people today have such ill-developed social skills b/c of the internet and gaming to excess. try spending more of the time actually meeting this guy in person. how can you have feelings for a cyber acquaintance? it's all so disturbing and non-conducive to a healthy, real relationship. 2
MidwestUSA Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 The first step in stopping the game playing would be to tell this guy you really don't have a bf. Better yet, let him know you said that just to get a reaction from him. Mature people don't lie to each other.
AlexiaBrinn Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 what made you flirt with the skype dude? did you get bored in your relationship?
Author ViciousLaLa Posted December 10, 2013 Author Posted December 10, 2013 Dunno if I'm replying in the right area o.O but no we don't play games that long. We play alil then talk story and chill, watch random sh*t, the what not. Just because we invert gaming into our lives, doesn't mean we don't have one. Once in awhile, yes, it goes hours on end. Absolutely nothing wrong with it. I'm ready to tell him the truth in the morning, I've got nothing to lose. Right now I need to get rid of this few unwanted pounds I gained upon countless hours of laying around talking to this guy for months >_< ugh!! He was supposed to come here last month....but we broke up. If our friendship continues, I definitely will try to see him [: even if nothing blossoms from it, that experience will be grateful. I mean, why not, f*ck it is what I always say.
soccerrprp Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 okay, great, you don't spend THAT much time playing games online, but you've never met this guy in person. you have a cyber relationship. you have strong feelings for someone you've never met, that's the part that is strange. anyway, tell him the truth. that should have been the clear choice in the first place. good luck.
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