theonlyjuan Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 I will start by saying that I have never been good with hints, so the answer may be more obvious to someone else. I am 25 and I have been friends with this woman at work for about a year, she is 45. She is married and has a son who is about 17. She originally found out her I liked her and was really flattered after she realised everyone wasn't joking about it. We text pretty much everyday. We had our work party and she came with her friend. She had her arm round me a lot and held my hand a few times, touched my bum a few times and didn't stop me from doing the same. Is she actually interested? I would like to know where this is going, everyone said I should have tried it on with her at the party. I kinda feel bad for her husband otherwise I would have made move. I just think that she likes the attention that she probably doesn't get at home
Author theonlyjuan Posted December 9, 2013 Author Posted December 9, 2013 Um, she's married...... Which is why I didn't try anything I just don't want her to be expecting something and getting frustrated with me
Dallers Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 I would think that her marriage is probably got a bit boring and things are not as interesting in the bedroom anymore. She knows you like her and so she see's you as a bit of fun to flirt with give her ego a bit of a boost. I doubt very much if it would go anywhere, and if it did it would only end in a very bad ending for you and her marriage. Being able to read signs is one thing, being able to read the signs from your situation is like Very Hard mode.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 Um, she's married...... You new to this? doesn't matter obviously (to her)... Many people are out of love and unhappy in their marriages juan, and also could use a little excitement and flirtation...things are obviously not going all that great at home. It goes without saying she's crossing the line of appropriateness, she initiated not yourself but you also are playing ball, so she'll likely keep pushing it and you could push it too if you were interested in her as well...but she's already crossed the line...it would be your own morals/ethics holding you back at this point. Is she flirting with you because she thinks its safe and just enjoying a bit of attention and having some fun? sure...could you take it to the next level? you'd have to try, she's obviously doing a lot to flirt with you and magic 8 would say "duh..yes" You've got to decide whether you want to be apart of this or not...if not then tell her "Hey this was fun but I think it's best we leave things at that and just keep things appropriate from now on...I'm not comfortable with the situation being that you're married" in your own words of course and don't let things continue on the path they are on. Otherwise you're going to go down with the ship if the **** hits the fan. But she's interested juan, don't be a knucklehead...she might not be willing to go all the way in the end, but the doors definitely cracked open so far with the hand-holding, butt-pitching and arm around your shoulder behavior in what sounds like is in front of everybody at work, she definitely doesn't seem all that concerned with boundaries and her marriage.
Author theonlyjuan Posted December 9, 2013 Author Posted December 9, 2013 Thanks, I will probably just leave it 1
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