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My breasts are so tiny I honeslty feel no man would ever love me again?

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polynomial Established Member

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Some guys like big breasts. Some guys like small ones. Some guys will love yours. Those are the guys you should focus on, not the ones who wish you were different, or those who would try to talk you into implants or make comments about other women's breasts to cut you down.

 

This isn't just true for breasts, but for hairstyle, skin color, fashion sense, personality, dress size, and anything else about you.

 

You are good enough as you are. You won't be everyone's cup of tea, but believe me, there are guys out there who will be wildly attracted to you - and your breasts - exactly as you are!

 

I guess you're right, everyone has different preferences or things they simply don't even care about. It's just hard some times, especially in this society, I mean there are big boobs everywhere and it can really get flat-chested girls like me down.

 

But I guess if a guy already likes me, he most likely has noticed I ain't got much going on up there so he shouldn't be overly surprised when he finally sees them..

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A cup and been going strong with the SO for 5 years.

 

Does that answer your question? ;)

 

 

Same for me! And I've never had any complaints. I was married and with my exH for over 11 years, the fact that he was an abusive jerk had no bearing on my breast size!:laugh: I am now happily remarried and he actually prefers small ones and thinks mine are perfect for him. He's a more leg/butt man anyway.

 

Men (or women) have various preferences for body parts and types. Some guys are into boobs, some into ass, some hair or face or smile..... However 100% hetro men are "into" vaginias. Your good.:)

 

Me personally I am into hips, and second an ass man. Boobs can be any size but I have had bad results with large breasted women, they don't seem to put in as much effort...

 

:laugh::laugh::laugh: My husband says the SAME thing. When he dated one woman who had them he was totally turned off. He said she just laid there and was "go ahead and fv*ck my tits"! :laugh::laugh: He said the nipples were just like flapjacks and had no response. He said it seemed that because she had large breasts she thought she was all that and didn't have to put in any effort or movement. Mine on the other hand, he said he loves the responsiveness he can just brush or touch them a certain way and HELLO!

 

I never minded being small, in fact I thought it enabled me to wear many things back in the day of deep plunging necklines that might make larger women look trashy. Not to mention even now I can go braless if I choose and it's sexy not the "I gotta have something for support". I think it's funny how some women will assume you secretly must want a boob job if you don't have them, I worked with many women like that!:rolleyes:

 

OP I take it you are younger, appreciate what you were given. I am in my late 40's now and they are still perky because I'm small. I really wouldn't trade it "for me" neither would my husband. So you have getting older, to look forward to! Now as some mentioned, there will be guys that may prefer large breasted women and likely they will match up with their preference, because as you noted you can kinda tell that right off the bat.

 

Like I mentioned if you encounter anyone that will make you feel bad, it most likely will be other women not men. Some women have a ridiculous need to be catty but just know it's THEIR insecurity shining through!;) Be happy with what you have and OWN it baby!

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Iguanna Established Member

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I never thought "I have big breasts, I can just lay down and let the guy do all the work". Meh too late now. :laugh:

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I prefer small boobies. Big boobies have more of a chance to be ugly.

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If it really bothers you, just get a boob job...Most women that are small report that it "changed their lives"...IDK..If I were you I would just be happy with what you have...Most guys dont really care or they would like a nice pair, but its not dealbreaker stuff..

 

TFY

 

It's no different than a guy working out and getting some muscles. I can personally attest that gaining weight was the best thing I ever did to attract girls. So yeah if you want bigger tits...buy em! It will definitely get a lot more attention from men.

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polynomial Established Member

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I prefer small boobies. Big boobies have more of a chance to be ugly.

 

Lets not call any boob ugly, kinda defeats the purpose if one must tread on others to feel good about oneself.

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It's no different than a guy working out and getting some muscles. I can personally attest that gaining weight was the best thing I ever did to attract girls. So yeah if you want bigger tits...buy em! It will definitely get a lot more attention from men.

 

The nipples supposedly lose their sensitivity and sorry i just love it too much to risk losing it :D

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The nipples supposedly lose their sensitivity and sorry i just love it too much to risk losing it :D

 

Yeah - don't change yourself just to try to get more attention from men. If YOU truly wanted bigger breasts for yourself, that's one thing. But I encourage you to learn to love yourself as you are. You are perfectly fine just the way you are.

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The nipples supposedly lose their sensitivity and sorry i just love it too much to risk losing it :D

 

 

I think they debunked that on "Mythbusters"...:laugh:

 

All kidding aside, I dont think thats true, but Ill defer to the ladies on that one..

 

TFY

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you may be surprised to find that there are plenty of guys who do not need a female with large boobs. My ex used to complain a lot about it because she was self conscious, but she never had any problem with me about (and was probably thankful for that)... she knew that was not why I was with her (although it didn't stop her from complaining about it). If you generally have a good attitude on life and generally take care of yourself physically, a lot of really great (and attractive) guys will want you regardless of how you feel about your boobs.

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I also have small breasts, but if I woke up one day with a c cup Id want my tiny ones back!

 

If you still cant like your breasts, there will be something else in your figure that is amazing. Pay attention to that, and thats it.

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I have to ask, what does your breasts size have to do with some man loving you? Will he love you because of your breasts size? :confused:

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thank you all for your replies, I actually feel a bit better:)

 

It's weird that I have such tiny breasts but a rather big butt lol :p

 

Sorry I just saw that.

You seem like a pear shape! Im one too.

You d better appreciate your waist, your hips and your butt girl!

I never got complimented on my breast, but I have always gotten compliments for those three.

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I have to ask, what does your breasts size have to do with some man loving you? Will he love you because of your breasts size? :confused:

 

A girl with small breasts is much better off than the guy with a small penis. There is a decent amount of guys out there who love smaller breasted women. There is a such a category on some of the porn sites and it's a popular search term on some. I have never had a problem with such a girl and same with numerous of my friends. Generally small boobs are associated with more slender build women which is a big part of the attraction...the entire package. If an overweight women had small boobs and complained it made her less desirable then I would have some empathy for her (or a woman with really saggy boobs).

Slim build/petite girls with small boobs never had any trouble getting guys and quite a few I knew would complain how terrible their body was but were fussy about their guys having great physiques. It seems you have not had guys ridicule you or walk out on you when you took your top off. I think it is just part of the general theme that women feel dissatisfied with their body image because they are benchmarking it against some 'ideal celebrities'. I can understand breasts are an overt sign of femininity but they don't impact on a woman's desirability in the eyes of majority of guys as much as in the woman's mind. As someone else pointed out, at least you can get a breast implants at some point if it makes you feel better about yourself.

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The nipples supposedly lose their sensitivity and sorry i just love it too much to risk losing it :D

 

Sorry, I'm late to the boob party, but you just said the key thing.

 

It really doesn't matter one bit what they look like, it's how you react to being touched that turns us on.

And if it's a genuine turn on, all the better for you!

 

I'd much rather be with a woman with "non-standard" breasts that she loves to have touched and reacts to, rather than a girl with perfect looking ones who just lays there...

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The two most powerful forces in the Universe are a pretty face and cleavage. I'm not into power so just about every fashion decision I make is de-emphasizing 'the girls'. I envy women who can walk into a room and not have every set of male eyes looking at the boobs.

 

The only real advantage to big boobs is is you lay in your back reading a book or watching TV and your man still thinks it was great sex.

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The two most powerful forces in the Universe are a pretty face and cleavage.

 

 

Money is more powerful than are either of those.

 

 

And there are sure to be forces in the universe more powerful than all three, some of which have yet to be measured and compared...

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Imported Established Member

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OP, I like tiny breast fine. Shut the **** up.

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I just feel like if a man ever saw my breasts he'd always have this inner dialogue which basically says that he doesn't like them but tries not to be so shallow but eventually will give in and break up with me :( IF he doesn't reject me the first time he sees them..

 

My ex always told me he didn't care about the size of my breasts (I hope he meant it!) and I just feel like I'll never find another man who could honestly say the same.. Sigh

 

There are tons of men who like small boobs. not all love big boobs!

 

If large boobs is a deal breaker for a guy, then he isn't worth knowing or having in your life.

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Your breasts are the same as mine and no guy has ever been disgusted or even disappointed...

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Most guys probably won't care, especially if they date you. They can tell the size before they ask you out.

Not if she is wearing a padded bra.

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It's amazing how much support a woman gets because she's insecure about her breast size.

 

Though if a man is insecure about his height or penis size it's not going to happen.

 

I don't think I've ever heard a woman say she prefers short guys or a small penis.

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It's amazing how much support a woman gets because she's insecure about her breast size.

 

Though if a man is insecure about his height or penis size it's not going to happen.

 

I don't think I've ever heard a woman say she prefers short guys or a small penis.

 

That's because those rarely crosses my mind. Guys are obsessed with such issues. I could care less. I also don't have an opinion on baseball or hockey. I just never think about it.

 

I have boobs. Tbey are always there. If a woman has a boob issue then ...hint...it's something I think about.

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That's because those rarely crosses my mind. Guys are obsessed with such issues. I could care less. I also don't have an opinion on baseball or hockey. I just never think about it.

 

I have boobs. Tbey are always there. If a woman has a boob issue then ...hint...it's something I think about.

Then you are one of the few women who don't care about height or penis size.

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Not if she is wearing a padded bra.

 

Well, true. But, it'll come out eventually. I think it would be silly to date someone solely on the size of their chest, and not who they are as a person. Boobs won't speak, but, the mind of a woman sure can.

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