tito1501 Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 Hello everyone, My doubt is regarding the following story, I would be really grateful to receive your perception about this situation. My age is 21 and hers is 19. I met a girl in a party, I talked to her for about 30 seconds and then kissed her (I liked her and got her number). Two days later, I texted her on What's App, we talked a lot during that week.Then we arranged a meeting for the next saturday. During the date, everything was like the "usual": Dinner -> Movies -> Kiss -> Brought her home. We did the same for the next week. It is relevant to say that when I was in front of her house, before she left, she told me : "I am not gonna text you today because I am really tired but tomorrow I will send you something" . However, I didn't ask her to. But that was good anyway. On sunday, the day after the date, I messed up. Don't ask me why but I changed my Facebook relationship status from "Single" to '"In a Relationship with Positive Life" ( I created it). I did it without thinking about the girl, I just did, and I laughed a lot with my friends. The thing is, she did not text me as she said she would. On the evening, I texted her and I could notice that she was colder than usual, then we ended the conversation very quickly. In the following days we did not talk, I didn't feel comfortable and I realized that I had done something unnecessary. My only option was to change my Facebook status to "Single" again and, me and a friend of mine pretended it was a bet and I was "forced" to do that because I lost it. By doing that, the girl came to talk to me in the next day, saying that she saw that a good movie was about to be launched in the movies. We talked a few words and then I haven't talked to her anymore, for the last three days. In the last conversation, she wasn't asking me a lot of things as she used to and she always came to me saying "Hi" one day or another, but she hasn't texted me anymore. I would like to know if I should talk to her again as if nothing had happened or if I should ask her whether she is upset because of something I did or not. I count with your help, she is a special girl and I don't want to lose her becuse of something stupid I did.
Mantha03 Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 (edited) Well it's most likely because you changed your relationship status. No girl wants to be "the other girl" even if they are the other girl they don't want to be. So in seeing that, she most likely decided she didn't want anything to do with someone who was in a relationship. Regardless if it was just a for fun thing changing your status like that is childish, especially saying it was a "bet." I would say she has probably lost a lot of interest if not all. So it should be no surprise that she is now distant. I would say just ask her what's going on and if she is even interested anymore and get it over with. Edited December 9, 2013 by Mantha03
NoMoreJerks Posted December 9, 2013 Posted December 9, 2013 She probably sees you as someone who's a little bit immature and playing mind games with her. I don't know if you can win this one at this point. Next time, wise up and stop playing facebook games or doing stupid stuff on facebook.
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